My boyfriend proposed to me.

by Preston 58 Replies latest social relationships

  • joannadandy
    joannadandy
    GAY=

    Nordic, let me get this right, Gay equals constipation?

    Preston...if it was me, I would be dumfounded and reeling. You've been together a year. For some people that is ample time to make a descision like this, some people need five years, and others never feel they are ready for this. For me...I dunno, I would be hesitant too--but you shouldn't listen to me, I think I have serious comittment issues.

    Bottomline is only you will know if this is going to work out. If you are even slightly uncomfortable with it, just tell him you need sometime, or a long term engagement. If he really loves you, he will understand and be willing to wait for you.

    Whatever you choose I hope you are happy. You are such a sweetie, and a good a friend, above all you deserve to be happy! Good luck to you! Please keep us posted

  • expatbrit
    expatbrit

    Go for the pre-nup, baby!

    Expatbrit (yes I'm an accountant. So what?)

  • Preston
    Preston

    Hi guys,

    First of all, I want to thank all of you from the bottom of my heart for being supportive of me when I asked of it. I only feel humble considering the fact that I don't post here that often. Still, I want you all to be aware that I did accept my boyfriend's proposal and we will be getting married near the end of the year. I'll keep you posted on developments. I hope to invite all of you. Until next time... BTW thank you Scarlet for your advice, I really appreciate it...

  • SLOAN
    SLOAN

    Congratulations Preston!!!!!!!!! Hope that you will be happy and wish you the best.

  • crownboy
    crownboy

    Congratulations, Preston.

    Hopefully the happiness you are now experiencing in your relationship will last for years to come.

  • WildHorses
    WildHorses

    Let us know when the big day is, and I will have a drink in your honor on that day.

    Congratulations!

  • riz
    riz

    Congratulations Preston and boyfriend fiance!! Rockin' good news

    in your honor: i carry your heart with me(i carry it in

    i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart)i am never without it(anywhere i go you go,my dear;and whatever is done by only me is your doing,my darling) i fear no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true) and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant and whatever a sun will always sing is you here is the deepest secret nobody knows (here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows higher than soul can hope or mind can hide) and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart i carry your heart(i carry it in my heart) 
    -ee cummings
    i wish you two all the happiness in the world.
    love, riz
  • MrMoe
    MrMoe

    Congrats darling!!!!!!!

  • Big Tex
    Big Tex

    FANTASTIC!

    CONGRATS!!!!!!

  • RAYZORBLADE
    RAYZORBLADE

    Hey Preston, don't think we've met, but 'wishing you the best' to you and your partner.

    TR: gay marraiges - yeah, it is not what I would do personally, but if someone wishes to do so, what the hell...go for it! Most of us have flipped the bird for the WTBTS and put the bible back up on the shelf, so we are not governed by tired old laws and fiction.

    Nordic = ?

    I would like to think, even if you're not necessarily gay positive, one can 'live and let live'. If it isn't hurting you or affecting you personally, relax.

    Yes, Rayzorblade is 'one of those', but even as a JW, I supressed my feelings for a long time, it took me many years to accept others, let alone accept myself. My how times have changed.

    Preston: all the best!

    I am quite impressed overall at the replies here. Truly outstanding.

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