Scooby.
I am sorry to hear this. I am a member of the male species....and this troubles me very much.
calamityjane...my wife is standing over my shoulder as I type this, and we are both sympathetic, but angry.
cj and i have been following your posts with great interest, and we have talked about them afterwards.
I will speak to you as a man who loves his wife.
I was the guy who initially started the thought with CJ, that maybe there was something wrong with the jw's. After our youngest daughter was born...I had given up on the jws. and she went to the KH, all by herself for the longest time, towing our baby along. Eventually my conscience got the best of me and I returned.....not because I loved the jw's, but because I loved my wife. Eventually, though she got to see the real side of the jw,s, ( not my doing but by their doing ) and we were both of same mind, and we eventually exited the same time.
I plead with you, to reconsider. Perhaps instead of washing your hands of the situation, maybe.....just maybe you can tuck your pride and anger away for a while, and save this relationship. There are hundreds of stories on this board who have done the same........and many who are attempting to do so.
What I am trying to say here is..... PLEASE try to save your union. There are so many people, who are too quick to just wash their hands of marriage...as though nothing previous meant anything. This saddens the rest of us who made the extra effort to make it work.
Regards: Dave and Denise.
