I find that when talking people who say they "used to be a Jehovah's witness" they say words that show they have in fact, never been one. It's like a man that worked for the post office for 30 years in a main major urban hub like Chicago or new york... and you ask him, "in your last position, what was your RDO?" and the man says "whats an RDO?"
Or an electrician, and the person says they have been an electtrician for 30 years, and you say, "can I borrow your dykes" and the man says, "what is that?"
Or a man that claimed to grow up knowing Davie Bowie. And how he was backstage at all the concerts, and He says he if in fact related, because his last name is also "bowie".
You see, when youre part of some job, or part of some group that requires active participation and interaction....be it the Red Cross, or in this instance, the Jw's. Youre going to use certain words, or jargon. if youre an "ex" whatever or not. because while outside non members might use a certain term, an inside person might use the proper word, or a slang.
RDO is "regular day off"
"Dykes" is a form of tool used by electricians and is a common nickname around the country.
David "Bowie" was in fact born, David Jones.
So when I see you men saying I first left Watchtower in such and such year? That right there tells me, you never have been "watchtower" because the terminology, ex or not, is wrong.
That would be like saying, "im an ex jew. I was practicing all my life" I first left Talmud in 1989. Talmud was really controlling. What was your experience with Talmud?
And NO jew, Ex or not, even uses such a jargon. If they were to use it, it would be some pandering move because they see others using it, and they want to fit in. Which in fact is no better, is it?
Really I find that groups like this are nothing more than Atheists that have a few Jws sprinkled in them. Swearing up and down that they were once Elders and everything else. And then they slip up and say something like how they actually were "high up in the watchtower".
what type of faith do you really want?I think you really want a God where there is no obligation on your part to change or do anything at all! You dont really want a human to stand before you and tell you anything at all about what God requires of you. Thats what I really suspect is going on here. i dont care what faith it is. Muslim, Jew, christian. You want god to be an American. A Democrat. that you can tell HIM how things are going to be. So if this month, you want God to accept gay marriage? then he does. If you want him to back the war your in? then so be it. If you want him to accept sex before marriage because its unreasonable to think kids should wait till marriage? then so be it. thats the God you want. truthfully, is that not the religion you want?
I think the only answers you men will give back is "well I will tell you what I dont want..the watchtower telling people with yada yada yada..." but what you do want? is not to be told anything at all by god, unless its really You telling HIM