Big Tex, cynical fellow that he is, said Osbeck was probably trying to get all of the details of the memorial service so he could see if some charge could be leveled at us. He's probably right.
Maybe not...
I mean, I hate the JW's as much as the next person, but they are people, well some of them, and they do have hearts, again some of them...
I don't see how anyone who read your letter, after knowing your father, could not be anything but moved, and feel really ashamed for they way they behaved. It's possible this guy is just concerned.
I know what I just said isn't very popular, but I don't like to pretend to know people's actions...anyone's. It's something I need to work on, I know I can be just as quick to judge as the next person, but I am getting better.
I think you took a great big step in sending this letter, and given the situation -- it HAD to be sent! There was no excuse for their behavior. It was obvious to me when I read it that you took a lot of time constructing it, that it was very painful/emotional for you to let all that out on paper...unless this elder dude is a robot how could he not be moved and concerned?
I dunno...just my worthless two cents...