our secret dating got caught...

by trueloveneverfails94 57 Replies latest social relationships

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  TheListener

  She will probably be counseled not to see you anymore until you have been baptized a year. If she doesn't follow this direction she will probably lose her pioneering privileges and possibly be marked. Another poster already explained marking.

  As for you, since you are not baptized not much will happen. You will get friendly counsel to let her be until you are baptized and have made the truth your own.

  Please read jwfacts.com to make sure you know exactly what becoming a witness really means. You sound like a really sincere person and I would hate to see you get deeper and deeper into a religion that has so much control over your personal life. Take some time and read a few life experiences of some of the posters here.
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  trueloveneverfails94

  Wouldn't they question about what we have done in our relationship??
  
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  brandnew

  Ooooh she's baptized , and your not???

  RUN !!!!!!!
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  smiddy

  trueloveneverfails94

  Excuse me mate , didn`t you say you are both 21 years old ? , are you sure your not 12 years old ?

  What 21 year olds need to have a chapperone in this 21st Century.? Do you want to be controlled by other peoples standards for the rest of your life ? Or are you man enough to make your own decisions.

  What Country do you both live in ? Saudi Arabia ? Syria ?

  If they question what you have done in your relationship tell them to mind their own business , it is between you and your GF and nobody else.

  You say you are 21 , you should have grown a set of balls by now so stand up for yourself and the woman you love , if you fail to do that , you are not the man for this woman.

  If you allow them to interfere in your lives now ,it will never end , you will always be manipulated by them .

  I`m sorry if I have come across real blunt ,but I believe it`s necessary sometimes .

  smiddy
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  GoneAwol

  Hi Truelove!

  Are you trying to become a jw FOR this girl? Or do you truely believe the religion has 'truth'?

  If this girl wasnt on the scene, would you still become a jw?

  This is the question you must answer truthfully. Take responsibility for your desicions, and dont get carried off by what others want for you.
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  brandnew

  Oh!! She's baptized, and your not?????

  RUN !!!!!
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  Landy

  Read the song of Solomon and take care of her garden. Nothing else really matters.

  Post of the day!
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  sir82

  You're 21 effing years old, and you're worried about who sees you holding hands with a girl?

  Read and re-read and re-read the above sentence until it sinks in.

  You are an adult.

  Do you really want to join a religion where 21-year-old adults have to act like they are 11?
  
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  TheListener

  Trueloveneverfails94 you asked

  Wouldn't they question about what we have done in our relationship??

  I don't think they'd go into that much detail. They may ask but wouldn't really expect a detailed answer unless you have gone further than holding hands and have something to confess to them. Then they will be very interested.

  Seriously, Sir82 said, read and reread what you're posting and ask yourself if this is how you want to live the rest of your life. And don't think this type of control stops once you're married...oh no...just think of the WT rules you need to follow in your bedroom.
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  Witness My Fury

  Let's review: It's a cult!

  Sorry fella, you let your small head do the thinking and this is where it has gotten you.

  Step back, look at it objectively and have a damn good think as others have already said.

  She will be the main one in the firing line over this sort of infringement of stupid cult rules, she will then have to choose to continue seeing you or not, if she continues to date you against their interference then more problems will come her way.

  Do not get baptised just to be with her, that is the dumbest move possible.