Hi Tina, I understand how I may have sounded and it's quite alright, I wasn't exactly clear in my previous messages. I did want to address one other point, and that is the lack of quality exchanges on the internet. (and of course, it is by no means limited to JW chat rooms wherever it may be found) This is another topic in itself, but it's been my observation that many are seeking a sort of cartharsis, and what ends up being communicated is not so much the thoughts but the intensity of the individuals' emotions. If you guys are interested I'd be up to discussing interpersonal communication/relationships online.