by Simon 2995 Replies latest jw friends
Mikejw: He actually says the words that his daughters dont need him so much
Maybe that is his way of saying that he doesn't want to bother with them anymore, or support them financially. Maybe that is why he feels trapped-- it's an expensive responsibility, and he's not exactly a shining example of a responsible husband/father.
How long before the girls get a letter full of accusations and gaslighting? Stay tuned!
How can he claim he was always there for his daughters when he run off and left them during Christmas period to indulge in a sex holiday with prostitutes and is forever scrolling through his phone when they need his attention
does he have a pending warrent in the UK?
Interesting that Lloyd's most recent video, "My Beliefs Are Changing," has been up only two days and has 27K views. Whereas his previous eight videos have an average of only 7.2k views.
This is speculation, but maybe 20k of those 27k views are by Lloyd critics and Lloyd victims watching the slob disintegrate on video.
Also noted that Lloyd had 364 patrons at the end of December. Today he has 357. Wonder what the number will be on February 1?
but he also referred to things happening on the “periphery” which could mean his reaction to Dijana moving on.
The part that got me was after his latest trip, he claimed a type of god-like power in “creating” his two girls and has certain responsibilities that he clearly feels are a burden to him. He then goes on to suggest he doesn’t need to be involved in every aspect of their lives. When considered alongside his stated belief that he feels stranded in Croatia, it is clear he’s searching for a way out and playing the role of an absent parent.
I was going to say what a selfish parent he was but deleted it. Actually Lloyd, the best thing you can do right now is get out of those girl’s lives. They don’t need you and judging by your last video, you are actually harming them. Take your fortune cookie wisdom and fuck off for good, you hapless sack of shit.
Yes that was my thoughts as well.
He thought he would find another relationship so that his ex would feel I wish I could have him back 😭 but it’s exactly the opposite situation.
he is obviously salty having to pay child support for another man to use these funds to take Lloyds kids out for ice cream ect….
if he did move back to the uk and not continue to pay child support then all his experience with glacial slow court system over there in Croatia- he may stop paying and think he can get away with it.
if all he can get for work is unskilled labour min wage jobs then so be it. Clean toilets Lloyd, whatever you can get to keep paying that guy to be daddy to your two girls.
the good thing about this entire situation is that whoever this guy is it’s not hard for him to be better that Lloyd. Even if he is a bit useless and has some big faults she would still think he is so much better compared to her ex who was sexting underage girls and then cheating on her with sex workers and using the family car for it.
He thought he would find another relationship so that his ex would feel I wish I could have him back 😭 but it’s exactly the opposite situation
The words “stranded in Croatia” are revealing in more ways than one. It’s clear he feels he is not needed there anymore, and even goes so far as to mention his girls. But there is another aspect to this. This says everything you need to know about his personal life. Had he had a girlfriend or someone he was “talking to”, he wouldn’t have thought he was stranded there. Those are words of a truly isolated and lonely man. He even made a joke in his “comedy” shtick that women routinely tell him they don’t want a second date. He’s lived there for over 15 years now, yet has no meaningful relationship with anyone besides his two girls whom he is now telling the entire world he has already abandoned emotionally, and if he gets his way, physically.
he is obviously salty having to pay child support
Not sure if he is on a regular basis. I can totally see Lloyd rationalise “well you wanted the divorce, so you take care of them”. If he is, I’m sure he’s claiming poverty due to the nature of his business. It’s probably not much at all and knowing the disposition of his wife, I doubt she’s insisting on a whole lot due to his abusiveness.
if he did move back to the uk
Doubt it. He’d be a joke in Manchester or anywhere in the UK for that matter and he knows it. The cost of living is so horrendous and I doubt he’s moving back there to live in a shit hole flat for the rest of his life. He’d really struggle. But North America or perhaps Western Europe - that’s where I’d put my money on him relocating to. There is a Cedarite somewhere who’d be tickled to have Jabba the Hutt set up studio and living quarters in their basement. Perhaps that crazy cat cunt Rhonda Hample in Ontario. His comedy routine might even be better received there as a British man living abroad is more of a novelty.
Clean toilets Lloyd, whatever you can get to keep paying that guy to be daddy to your two girls
Lazy and entitled people will never do this. Look for this parasite to attach himself to a devoted and generous supporter and make it sound to all his listeners it was all part of the plan and a step forward.
I believe he is planning to return to the UK and since he doesn't want to work a minial job he will try to come back to daddy who has a big house with many bedrooms and go on disability allowance which is quite common. Also, I will not put it past him to reintegrate with the local congregation ,we have many bend elders who will have him reinstated although he was and has been the greatest and baddest apostate in the world. I won't even put it past him for him to even have a part at a local assembly when he tells the world how he came back to Jehovah.
Thankfully due to a large community of "friends" in the area the police will be notified upon his arrival, there is an open warrant against him, and the UK Bethel asking sure the local elders do not have him back😁
Sorry Lloyd we don't any pedophile scum back home, we have enough already with the local Pakistani rape gangs...and i want to keep you true to your word that you will never join Jehovah’s Witnesses again...you're not getting out of this one you slimeball
he will try to come back to daddy who has a big house with many bedrooms and go on disability allowance which is quite common.
I keep seeing people expect Lloyd to return to the UK. Perhaps that's possible, but I really can't see it. Then again, desperation can make people do things they never dreamt of, and if he really does hit rock bottom, and he clearly has no reasons to stay in Croatia (no proper job and no chance of any Croatian woman with an IQ above pond life wanting to have anything to do with him) then it might happen.
A lot would depend on:
The words “stranded in Croatia” are revealing in more ways than one. [..] Those are words of a truly isolated and lonely man. [.]He’s lived there for over 15 years now, yet has no meaningful relationship with anyone
I've not followed his latest outpourings, and after several weeks of not seeing or hearing anything of him I can't bring myself to verify it personally, but from what those of you who have "taken one for the team" and kept up with his ramblings are saying, maybe he really is about to hit rock bottom. It's been coming for some years, like a slow-motion car crash, but now it looks like it's really starting.
The question is, will these self-searching thoughts of his lead to real "repentance", or just more self-justification? One clue will be what he does next. He can either wallow in self-pity and escapism, or he can make a plan for change in his life and work towards it. Given he is not yet 50 and seems generally in good health (physically at least), there is still time to make a pivot in his life and learn from all his mistakes, even belatedly. So far, he appears to have chosen the first option though, which is not a good sign, and if he keeps on down that road, his mental and physical health will soon decline further.
Another clue will be regarding how he acts over his daughters. If he continues to bemoan his disconnection from them but all he does about it is either 1) try to interfere with how Dijana is raising them or, 2) try to "punish" her by withholding financial support or behaving unreasonably over access, then that will speak volumes.
The best thing he can do is commit to a specific financial agreement and then either 1) negotiate properly with Dijana over access then stick to that arrangement, or 2) get out of their lives altogether until such time as each of the girls reach an age and maturity where they can choose if they want contact with him.
Maybe Lloyd can immigrate to Australia, the original Penal Colony of outcast losers and criminals. He'd be far, FAR away from Dijana and those pesky financially draining offspring, and next to nobody would know or care about him down there. He could be some tourist bus driver out in Alice Springs.
