I think Lloyd could become a DARVO lecturer.
DARVO stands for "Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender." It's a tactic often used by individuals, including narcissists, to deflect blame and manipulate others. Here are some fictional examples illustrating how a narcissist might employ DARVO:
1. **Caught Cheating**:
- **Deny**: "I didn't cheat on you. You're making this up."
- **Attack**: "You're always so insecure and paranoid."
- **Reverse Victim and Offender**: "You're violating my privacy by snooping around."
2. **Financial Misuse**:
- **Deny**: "I never took money from your account."
- **Attack**: "You're so controlling, always tracking every penny."
- **Reverse Victim and Offender**: "I'm the one who should be upset; you don't trust me."
3. **Neglecting Responsibilities**:
- **Deny**: "I didn't forget to pick up the kids; you never told me."
- **Attack**: "You're so disorganized, always blaming me for your shortcomings."
- **Reverse Victim and Offender**: "I'm upset that you think I'd be so irresponsible."
4. **Emotional Manipulation**:
- **Deny**: "I never said those hurtful things."
- **Attack**: "You're too sensitive and overreacting."
- **Reverse Victim and Offender**: "Now I feel like I have to walk on eggshells around you."
5. **Workplace Bullying**:
- **Deny**: "I didn't steal your idea; you're mistaken."
- **Attack**: "You're just jealous because the boss likes me better."
- **Reverse Victim and Offender**: "You're undermining my reputation by making false accusations."
These are just examples to illustrate the concept; they are not indicative of any specific individual's behavior.
Even ChatGPT doesn't believe Lloyd's apology!