Lloyd is confusing having to check in with his patrons and get their permission to buy a new car or move to a new home or buy another Star Wars toy, with them having issue over his spending money they donated on something as horrific as prostitutes.
This isn't a matter of, "Is that car the best financial decision, will it last longer and offer higher mileage than this other car. If I'm your patron, I get to have a say on what type of car you drive, clothes you wear, Star Wars collectibles you treat yourself to..."
It's a matter of him using thier dollars to prop up one of the most abusive, horrific industries on the planet, something that often involves CSA. That's bad enough, but he does it while pretending to be an advocate for CSA victims.
Lloyd is a criminal, period. Convicted of it or not, he admits to using prostitutes regularly, which is a crime. If your personal life involves criminal activity, yes it's other people's business. In fact, court cases are often public because we feel that criminal activity is not someone's "private business" but in the interest of the public.
If your dollars are going to support criminal activity then yes, it's your business.
Imagine any criminal using that as a defense. "Whether or not I break into homes and steal things is no one's business but my own. Whether or not I used money you gave me to buy my crowbar, mask, and gloves is not your business."
Good god that man and his followers are some sick, hypocritical, demented freaks.