Tina, I agree with you that responsibility doesn't rest with the one who studies with anyone. While we may or may not have personally "brought anyone into the truth," the responsibility (except for the persons born into it) of freedom of choice.
It's as Dr. Phil says in his book, it is your responsibility. If we were duped, what should we have done more? What would we do now? We have to own up to our own responsibility for our actions.
Not that one deserves to be duped and the 'duper' is still culpable, but we should have taken actions--as we would do now--to prevent our gullibility.
Then we can have much more power in our lives and not be afraid of it happening again.
Of course, I just feel I fell through the rabbit hole as Alice in wonderland did and couldn't escape for 28 long years!
I don't feel any degree of responsibility rests with the one who studied with me. Nor with any of you. As Ray Franz says "victims of victims."
Patio