Umm, sorry about the previous blank post, don't know how to really use this new format...been away a while.
I'm so sorry for your loss, and my sincerest condolences to both yourself and Rick.
Kelpie, you didn't DO anything wrong, OK? so please don't blame yourself, as some of the things your post said would indicte. This happened to my ex and me, and well, I know she didn't do anything wrong, the doctor told us sometimes if there is something wrong with the pregnancy, it's just natures way of correcting it, and not going on with the pregnancy, doesn't always happen that way but sometimes like in your case it did.
But be assured YOU or RICK did nothing wrong!
Take it is easy for a while, try not to stress over it too much if you possibly can, the pain will pass with time.
Take care