Interesting comments and replies.
Yes there is indeed a line that we must all place but the where is what is so differnt for many peolpe. And that is what causes the flames IMHO.
and tj...
tj ~ who remembers seeing Spice recently as she reasoned very well with a fellow poster over the matter of iggy... in another place
thanks for the compliment..although that wasn't the incident that got me really thinking about this. It was actually a conversation with a loved one on the phone .