I only had my Hubby for 5 short months after his diagnosis before he was gone. Most of that time was spent in chemo..and then he would be sleeping. Or I would be trying to find things to cook that would taste good to him.
I really lost him when they gave us the diagnosis!.And no matter how many questions I asked..I felt totally helpless ..The JW's dictated his health care...
All he could do was think about "The new system"..and tell me if I came back I would see him!..
So I did a LOT of crying..because I couldn't believe the way he did and I don't think I will ever see him again...
Cherish each and every moment with your loved ones..for you never know. My Hubby was the picture of health..never any serious problems. Then whammy! The sky fell in.
It is very hard..I so appreciated the support I received from so many here. I can never express how much you all helped ME!
I always thought I would be the first to go.
I hope all goes well with your wife and you now!..Pacemakers are a wonderful invention..It can really extend a person's life.
Hugs..and best wishes to you both!
Golden Girl..aka..Snoozy..