LANDMARK DECISION - Vicki Boer vs Watchtower Society

by Uzzah 144 Replies latest watchtower child-abuse

  • reporter
    reporter

    Shelburne, Ontario: I was there last week. Twice.

    Fiddletown. Population 4000, typical of rural mid-western Ontario. As typical of small towns here, the town is your life. Rumors travel within hours, if not minutes. It's the small, close-knit factor which adds a whole new dynamic to the Witness control in one's life.

    Vicki -- I salute you. It takes guts beyond belief to put one's life on the line like that, but what we can only imagine is the tremendous encouragement this will lend to those in similar situations. This is, in addition to physical terrorism, spiritual terrorism, emotional terrorism; theocratic terrorism. Terrorism is not just something on a national scale. It is on interpersonal levels. Peace has to begin on interpersonal levels.

    Is it just me, or is this a big step, "the freedoms given to religion are NOT absolute and damage to an individual supercedes the rights of a religion"
    No, it is not just you. This is a reaffirmation of the Canadian Constitution. These are issues of basic human rights, recognized the world over. They are espoused by the UN, whom the Society on one side of the face despises yet writes their truth-telling factual articles. There is no way that the freedoms of religious institutions should or be allowed to impinge on the basic rights of individuals. The freedom of religion, ends, at the point where its actions cause injury to those within and without that religion. Religious corporations, like business corporations, must be kept within bounds. These are the battles of the 21st century.
  • reporter
    reporter

    and I've got to add something here. I reread that news article which says:

    Watch Tower, the Canadian wing of the church, said the group was happy the three elders were exonerated.
    "The elders and their families are glad to be able to put this behind them," spokesman Clive Thomas said in a release.

    I take exception to that. Exonerated my ass. This was an affirmation of guilt. Granted, the dollar value was paltry, and that I have issue with too, but by no means does this "put this behind them." They know they got away with it. Where's their "Christian conscience" here?

    Mr. Clive Thomas, that is just outrageous. On BOTH a personal, as well as an organizational, level, that judgment was a judgment of guilt. Mabye in your delusional, fanatical, "theocratic warfare" minds, you imagine you won a victory over the "worldly apostate". But that thinking is delusional, and deep down, you KNOW IT. Even your "Jehovah" knows your guilt and would hold you to account, according to how you measure it out to others.

    It's not behind you. It's real. It's fact. It's live.

  • sf
    sf

    Diana! EMAIL THAT JUDGE!! Phone her up. Do what it takes to be heard. Write up a letter to this judge and notorize it. Do what you can to at least let the judge know that there is much more to this case and now that you are able, you will tell ALL.

    The entire truth must be heard and if you are willing and able to do so NOW, then get down on it for Vicki and her kids and family and future families.

    {{hugs for you all in your family}}

    sKally

  • ESTEE
    ESTEE

    I just don't understand how dubs continue to follow blindly....Can't they just see that sexual abuse is unacceptabe behaviour and is punishable by the courts of the land??? What does it take them to see...just open their eyes and see?!

    What makes sexual predators inside the borg less guilty than the ones in the prison system ??

    Please help me to come to terms with it?

    ESTEE <------of the "not-in-a-fluffy-mood" class today

  • UnDisfellowshipped
    UnDisfellowshipped

    I just found a different News Article about Vicki Boer winning the $5,000 against the Watchtower Society (that sounds very good -- Vicki Boer winning .... against the Watchtower Society -- I hope and pray to see many, many more victims win against the Borg!):

    CanadaEast.com - Judge awards woman $5K in civil suit against Jehovah's Witnesses (June 30th, 2003): http://canadaeast.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20030630/CPN/20587021&cachetime=15

    Judge awards woman $5K in civil suit against Jehovah's Witnesses MIKE OLIVEIRA
    TORONTO (CP) - A woman who accused the Canadian wing of the Jehovah's Witnesses of negligence over their handling of allegations of sexual abuse has received $5,000 in damages, an award she calls a "bittersweet" conclusion to the case.

    "The penalty was very little and that was very, very upsetting for us," Vicki Boer said Monday from her home in Fredericton. Boer, 32, said it is "really, really important" that the court recognized her suffering and that "there was a penalty they had to pay."

    Boer, who says she suffered sexual assaults between ages 11 and 14, sought $700,000 from the Watch Tower Bible and Tract Society of Canada and three of its elders in a 1998 civil suit that claimed they were negligent and breached their duty.

    No criminal charges were ever laid in the assault allegations but Justice Anne Molloy's written civil judgment says "there is no material dispute as to the general background leading up to . . . this matter" and "the plaintiff was sexually assaulted by her father."

    In the civil suit, Boer claimed that rather than immediately notify the Children's Aid Society, elders told her not to seek outside help or report the alleged abuse. She also said they made her confront her father to allow him to repent his sins in accordance with biblical principles, outlined in Matthew 18:15-18.

    Boer said the confrontation was traumatizing and led to a rocky path in her adult life, which included a nervous breakdown and being ostracized by family, friends and people in her southern Ontario community of Shelburne, about 100 kilometres northwest of Toronto.

    But Molloy ruled that while Boer was certainly put through a traumatic experience, the church was ultimately not responsible for all of her pain and suffering.

    "That one session, while traumatic, played only a minor role in creating the situation in which (Boer) now finds herself," Molloy wrote in her decision.

    Molloy cleared the three elders of wrongdoing, but ruled that the church pay Boer $5,000 because one of its elders - who was not named in the suit - talked her into the confrontation with her father, which was an inaccurate application of their faith.

    "Putting a dollar figure on psychological harm is always a nearly impossible task, and one which is inherently arbitrary," she wrote.

    Molloy added that she considered the typical range of damages issued to victims of severe childhood incest and physical assault - around $75,000 to $150,000.

    Molloy ruled the church never told Boer not to seek medical help, nor was she told the alleged abuse should not have been reported.

    Watch Tower, the Canadian wing of the church, said the group was happy the three elders were exonerated.

    "The elders and their families are glad to be able to put this behind them," spokesman Clive Thomas said in a release.

    While victims of sexual abuse normally aren't identified in public, Boer agreed to allow her name to be publicized as part of her effort to promote what she has alleged was abuse within the confines of the church's congregations.

    As part of their beliefs in a strict interpretation of Bible teachings, Jehovah's Witnesses reject anything political or "worldly" that distracts from their focus on Christ and the second coming, which they consider imminent.

    Anyone who runs afoul of the religion's strictest tenets find themselves excommunicated, often to such an extent that they're shunned by even family.

    When Boer left the faith and married outside the religion, she lost contact with her mother. Even as her mother was dying in hospital of cancer, she was not allowed to visit and never was not able to reconcile with her before she passed away, the judge noted.

    But Boer said she was still happy she took on the five-year fight, now that other people have come forward with allegations of abuse.

    "There were so many children coming out of the woodwork saying, 'The same thing happened to me,' " she said.

    Still, she said she can't put the past entirely behind her, because she was waiting to find out if the judgment will include payment for her court fees, well in excess of $5,000.

    "Hopefully this doesn't bankrupt us, which is what I'm terrified of. It's the one big thing that we're panicking about right now," she said. "I just don't want my own family suffering because of something the church did to me."

  • obiwan
    obiwan

    Let's hope this starts the whirl wind around the org....woo hoo!

  • needs_lots
    needs_lots

    Rough night, but its a new day. Thanks Diana for all the encouragement, and sorrry I havent had a chance to call. I wish you could have been there to testify. I had no idea if you were even alive. I don't think new evidience can be added. What really makes me upset is that she found the wt society guilty of the first meeting, but not the second. It just doesn't make sense. I feel like a rape victum who insists that these three men raped me, and the judge believes them because its 3 against one. Why the hell would I have started this lawsuit if I couldn't remember whether or not they made me sit and confront my father. Its nuts that she didn't believe me that it did indeed happen. She says I was emotionally distraught to remember, so I lied. I NEVER LIED. I REMEMBER WHAT HAPPENED. I REMEMBER HAVING TO SIT AT THE TABLE WITH MY FATHER AND GOING OVER DETAILS OF THE ABUSE OVER AND OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I REMEMBER THEM SAYING THAT MY FATHER DENIES DETAILS OF THE ABUSE AND SO HE HAD TO BE BELIEVED OVER ME. THEY EVEN WROTE IN THEIR JUDICIAL COMMETTEE MEETING LETTER THAT I EXAGERATED.

    FIRST MY FATHER RAPES ME, THEN THE SOCIETY RAPES ME, AND NOW THE JUDGE BELIEVES THEM,AND REVICTIMIZES ME. WHEN WILL THEY STOP LYING!

    VIC

  • mizpah
    mizpah

    Congratulations to Vickie and other Canadian ex-JWs. This is a great victory that has been achieved in the Canadian court system.

    However, in our enthusiasm, we must not forget that there is still a long road ahead in this battle of fighting sexual abuse of children in the Watchtower organization. Just recently, a judge in New Hampshire held the Watchtower Society and the elders not responsible in a similar case. It will probably be appealed to the state supreme court. But it reminds one that there are differences in legal decisions in various countries.

    There has always been a reluctance in the courts in the U.S. to deal with issues that involve religion. However, with the precedents set by the cases involving the Catholic church, the courts seem to recognize that this has to be addressed.

    Let's hope that we see similar results in the courts of the U.S.

  • Cassiline
    Cassiline
    I NEVER LIED. I REMEMBER WHAT HAPPENED. I REMEMBER HAVING TO SIT AT THE TABLE WITH MY FATHER AND GOING OVER DETAILS OF THE ABUSE OVER AND OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I REMEMBER THEM SAYING THAT MY FATHER DENIES DETAILS OF THE ABUSE AND SO HE HAD TO BE BELIEVED OVER ME. THEY EVEN WROTE IN THEIR JUDICIAL COMMETTEE MEETING LETTER THAT I EXAGERATED.

    FIRST MY FATHER RAPES ME, THEN THE SOCIETY RAPES ME, AND NOW THE JUDGE BELIEVES THEM,AND REVICTIMIZES ME. WHEN WILL THEY STOP LYING!

    VIC

    (((((( Vicki ))))))))

    I am so very sorry you are feeling so much pain. Know if I could I would take all of it from you.

    Love

    Cassi

  • Angharad
    Angharad

    ((((Vicki)))))

    Sorry your hurting.

    Congratulations on your victory, I hope you are able to get the fees taken care of without having to pay yourself.

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