Are you confused? Have you asked your lady friends and female relatives what you are doing wrong and even though you have followed their advice, you are STILL confused? Have you asked your girl friends what they want and done it and still not know what is going on? The problem may be that you think women communicate with words...they don't pal. Watch what they do and NOT what they say. They will tell you all the politically correct crap to massage your ego, but they rarely follow it themselves. "Looks don't matter, it is a great personality, money doesn't buy happiness, great sense of humor"....you have heard it all. And it is BS, my friends. Want the truth? PM me and I'll give it to you... free! Let's level the playing field and quit whinning. No joke, and men only! Maverick
Why guys should never expect a straight answer out of a woman
by Maverick 57 Replies latest social relationships
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teenyuck
My responses are in RED
They will tell you all the politically correct crap to massage your ego, but they rarely follow it themselves. "Looks don't matter,--But they really help us gals get what we want- it is a great personality-Who needs a personality when you have 36D Hooters?,-- money doesn't buy happiness--I'd like to buy more happiness; it can't hurt to have some on reserve--, great sense of humor--When you look down and the Viagra has not kicked in, a sense of humor is priceless--"....you have heard it all. And it is BS--No it really isn't....we are that shallow!--, my friends.
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Realist
well i would say one can conclude that woman prefer rich, good looking and witty over poor, ugly and boring....at least most of them
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teenyuck
And men prefer ugly, fat, stupid wives? Right? Same logic?
Honestly, you guys have to look in the mirror and admit that sometimes the Brill Cream Comb Over just dosen't work. With $200.00 in the bank you are not going to get Brittany Spears.
OTOH, gals, when you let yourself go, don't expect Brad Pitt to come walking up and offer you marriage without a pre-nup.
As uglypeople.com proves, there is someone for everyone. Rich or poor, good looking or not. And looks are in the eyes of the beholder. No one else.
If you cannot find a woman and blame your bank book, your wit or your looks, you need to have a friend tell you the truth. Your personality.
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Realist
tennyuck,
fully agreed!
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Maverick
Some guys can't be taught, their egos get in the way. That's why we have so many unhappy people out there. The Borg promote Jekle/ Hyde, ( I'm sure I mis-spelled that). The men are the head over their women folk etc. OK Teenyuck, would you rather have a whimp, a macho-man, or a gentleman? This is not as stupid a question as you may think. There are no role models in the Borg. Most of these clowns are women haters! I am not, but I think it is time for the men to get there acts together and do what is right! Life leave clues, so.... you brused and battered guys....be a man and admit you're lost, PM me and I'll point you in the right direction. It helped me...saved me thousands of dollars and lots of time. Learn how to translate womaness. Never ask a women what they want in a relationship, wrong, wrong, wrong! Open your eyes, the ladies will tell you what they need without you being a pussy and weakly asking....duh! Maverick
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arrowstar
Maverick -
There really are women out there who know what they want and can tell a man what it is they want. I believe that because of past relationships we begin to pre-judge what the outcome will be when we say or do something. I've heard "you're probably going to get mad when I tell you this, but..." Surprise!! I didn't get mad. What they said to me was not said in anger or to belittle me or hurt me. How they said it made a difference in my response. Color him shocked when I didn't throw a hissy fit. There has to be mutual honesty and respect. That is what makes it work. Not the money...not the looks. I've dated financially secure and dirt-poor. What makes the difference is how they treat me...not what's in the bank or how they look. Looks fade and bank accounts decline.
Not everyone is shallow.
Arrowstar
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teenyuck
Teenyuck, would you rather have a whimp, a macho-man, or a gentleman?
My husband is a macho-man and a gentleman. He is a former college football player who is the nicest, gentlest person I have met. He was not a JW.
I use macho in the sense that he would never back down from a fight, then again, based upon his size and continued heavy weight lifting, not too many people are going to get in his face. Then again, he does not look or get into situations where that type of stuff could occur. That is where the gentleman comes in. He knows when it is worth fighting for or agreeing with a jerk so a fight does not break out.
This is not as stupid a question as you may think. There are no role models in the Borg. Most of these clowns are women haters! I am not, but I think it is time for the men to get there acts together and do what is right!
That I agree with. I don't think they are women haters necessarily. I think that they are afraid of women. That gives their agenda backbone.
Most woman want the same thing men do. Someone to love who will love them back; unconditionally. Learning how to communicate that need is the hard part.
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SealingSalamander
1. As for the bOrg:
I once read somewhere that in classical Greece and Rome the reason why a LOT of men were homosexually inclined (not the ones that were naturally gay) was because the women in their society were viewed as basically being property or cattle, with very little rights, almost no education, etc. A lot of the time, the women didn't even have a name, they just had their father's name and in turn their husband's name.
Therefore, a man took a wife to have offspring and some guaranteed tail and perhaps a punching bag if it was a crappy day, but guess who he had deep and meaningful relationships with??? Someone who was not only his equal, but was actually, by all intents and purposes a human being. Does this situation sound kind of familiar???
2. As for men in an enlightened society (i.e. not the New World one):
This one just burns me up: women are expected by the time they aquire breasts and a period (maybe before) to keep themselves up, dress well (or like a slut, depending on the situation), stay on a starvation diet, get plastic surgery when all the bits and the face start to wrinkle and sag, and act like a sexpot 24/7 yet-
For men, bathing and shaving are optional. T-shirts, jeans and a baseball cap are acceptable on any occasion. Be yourself. Act how you feel. Never diet, there's no need. You can always find a woman who'll be more than happy to do anything you want.
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talesin
maverick - didn't read the whole thread, but
maybe you are just choosing to hang with the wrong females (??????????????)