Seems like another one of those issues they are going to try to "change with the times". Unfortunately for them though, it will surely backfire. It seems to me that one of their "driving forces" for gaining new converts is that, only those knowing the "truth" will survive, and not end up crispy critters. So as WG brought up, if they don't open their eyes and seek out this knowledge, they won't survive. This philosophy is paramount to their survival, in my humble opinion. If they start to concede that it isn't quite that cut and dry, well then all these little seeds of doubt will start to take hold. If that's true, then maybe it's ok for somebody to accept a blood transfusion, or celebrate a birthday - I mean, they didn't do it with malice or anything - just in fun! Then the masses will really start to open their eyes. I've brought up my grandmother here on several occasions - also with the JW couple we are studying with. She (my grandmother) was a devout Catholic who went to church every day, did the rosary thing, and everything else all good Catholics do. I have no doubt in my mind her heart was more pure and devoted to God than most. Yet these people have the gall to tell me she screwed up, and didn't seek out the true religion, so she won't "survive" (as opposed to some poor soul who couldn't afford a bible, or lived in a country where they didn't have ready access to the "truth".)
As far as they're concerned, she was sinning by going to a "false" religion. BuLL-SH&T!!! Like Worldly-Girl brought out, this would point to an uncaring, selfish god instead of the kind, loving God they speak of. (Unless His omni-potence isn't so powerful, and He doesn't know what's in our heart!!)
Sorry for rambling - just had to throw in my 3-1/2 cents!! Hey WG - Please read your Private Messages. I've sent you several to your HM account, but not sure you're getting them.
Brian