This sounds rather typical of the 'net' experience. Being the adventerous sort, I have met a number of people through the net. They all have told me most of the guys they meet are just looking to get laid. Not that getting laid is a bad thing but the point was most of these guys were 'with-holding certain facts'...like being married!
I have found there are four basic kinds of women on the net. (This is not an attack on women).
1.) Total and complete loonies! Ones who hear voices and shit!
2.) Ones I call Cyber Circes, after the enchantress in the Odyssey that detained Odysseus for a year from this true love and turned his men into pigs! This lovely is just a time waster who get some vicarious thrill out of getting guys to tell them all kinds of personal stuff online but has no intention of ever meeting the fellows.
3.) Lairs. Everything they tell you is suspect... their age, weight, marital status, kids, work, you name it they lie about it!
4.) The person who is honestly just trying to meet people and hates the bar scene.
There must be some decent people out there, we meet them in public. But the ladies I have meet on the net are very guarded. Now, that's the ones who were type four. I have run into a bunch of threes too! Scary! I can just imagine how ii is for the ladies! Maverick