I too have epilepsy.
I have adult onset, the docs don't know what from. Probably from a blow to the head. I have had 7 concussions since I was a kid. Plus they used forceps at birth, which could cause problems later. You may want to ask your mother this question. Believe me, she will know.
I have only night time seizures. Or nocturnal. I am not on disability, nor have I ever applied for it, due to seizures. I do drive, however, I did have to provide proof from my docs that I only had night time seizures. Which is basically your word to the doc. Also, most states have clauses that state that if you have a seizure, you must be seizure free for one year to drive. That is serious. Having your freedom taken away is major.
As for meds, I am currently on Topomax. It is relatively new.
As Ravyn stated, you must see a neuro. That is critical. You need to keep a journal of your seizures. What type (grand mal, petite mal, etc.) what time of day, what were you doing, what types of food you ate, were/are you stressed, etc. This type of info is really helpful to the doctor in narrowing down why you have seizures. Also, you will have to have an MRI and or an EEG or a CT scan of your head. They will be looking for brain tumors and/or aneurisms.
Here is the Epilepsy Foundation Website:
http://www.epilepsyfoundation.org/answerplace/
Getting disability for epilepsy is sometimes difficult. The Epilepsy Foundation actually has lots of information on this and lots of legal stuff that your doctor may not be up on. You may want to read up before you go to the doc.
If you would like to call me I would love to talk to you. This is a terribly frightening thing. However, it does not have to change your life drastically. Much depends on the type and frequency of your seizures and the ability of the meds to get them under control.
I PMd you my phone #.
Please let me know how you are. I really understand. Stress can really affect your health and seizues can be brought out if the underlying factors were there.
Tina