New Illinois Sex Law - Its a Killer

by Amazing 21 Replies latest jw friends

  • Amazing
    Amazing

    The Governor of Illinois just signed into law new legislation that says that ANYTIME during sexual intercourse, if a woman (or man) says stop, then the other person MUST immediately stop ... or ... they can be charged with RAPE ... okay ...

    So, I can see it now ... a partner is reaching orgasm and the other person says ... STOP ... yeah ... okay, that's the law in Illinois ...

    Oh, I understand the foundation of the law ... and I suppose it has its good purpose ... but ...

    Hey 49 other states ... get ready to receive many millions of refugees from the great State of Illinois.

  • Mecurious?
    Mecurious?

    Yep and get ready to start signing presexual contracts. Come to think of it thats really not a bad idea, exp. for rich athletes like kobe unless your already married!

    Merc'

  • barry
    barry

    We have that same law here in aussie land a bloke in western australia went on for 10 seconds longer when asked to stop and he was charged. Thats the only case ive heard of though. Barry

  • Amazing
    Amazing

    Barry: Gawd!!! You have to be kidding ... you know, while I know that the scales of social justice and people relationsships need improvement ... sometimes it seems like our laws are getting so anal-retentive that soon we will need the government's permission to get out of bed in the morning ...

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    oh man this is tough

    Stop can mean wait a minute while I catch my breathe

    Stop can mean get the F**K off me

    10 seconds can be the difference in

    enjoyment

    or ejaculation (especially important for those who think the rythm method is a good choice of birth control)

    or rape

    I can see this is important for the dunces who think they can ignore a person's pleas to stop but the line is too fine here to use one word

    On the other hand I can recall when I was being raped all I could utter was one word - NO - and it was ignored

  • wednesday
    wednesday

    my father used to say "some people are so stupid they couldn't pour Piss out of a boot without instructions" B/c bruts have chosen to ignore the requests of their partners, we now have a law S--P-E-L-L-I-N-G it out. If somoene says stop, u stop.

  • funkyderek
    funkyderek

    If I'm giving somebody a lift in my car and they suddenly start screaming for me to let them out, how soon do I have to stop the car before I'm charged with kidnapping?

    If I'm a guest in somebody's house and they suddenly start screaming for me to leave, how soon do I have to leave the house before I'm charged with trespassing?

  • donkey
    donkey

    Funky there is no time limit.
    If they say let me out....by the time they have uttered the last word they need to have been ejected outta the vehicle.

    If they say outta my house...the earth needs to immediately swallow you up or you are toast.

    Lady Lee suggested 10 seconds. What if someone can finish in 9 seconds?

    Jack

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    donkey I mentioned 10 seconds because barry up above said a guy was charged with rape when he didn't stop for 10 seconds after she said stop

    Really how many people have their ears on in the throes of an orgasm. Like can you even really hear? The mind does need some time to register what was said. Not that this should be an excuse for anything but I think some reason needs to be used here

    I can't believe I'm arguing this side of it!!! Stop means Stop for whatever reason

    Negotiating what the stop means can be done after the stop

  • cat1759
    cat1759

    No should be said up front. Screaming at the jerk should be done up front. Waiting until both of you have your pants around your ankles and all of a sudden you decide or he decides no, seems wrong. Although there was one time where I saw what he had and didnt figure it would fit I used the next line.

    Just tell him you need to get birth control because you could get pregnant seems to be the way to go then run out of his house so fast he won't know what hit him and never by all means never go out with him again.

    For those of you who do say no and he doesnt listen, carry hairspray, works like a charm everytime, as my mace was confiscated by the state police as I didn't know I needed a gun permit to carry that.

    Cathy

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