Linda wrote:
Hi everyone. In my heart of hearts I must say I cannot believe God hates gays. I trust my gut and yet the Bible tells me it is anti-gay. It is a confusion, but why are so many Christians pro active for gays? Is it against God to love gays? In the JW organization the members claim God doesn't hate gays but wants them to change. Is that even possible?! Oh man!
If there is a creator, a god, a superior being responsible for us being here, no, I don't think he/she would hate gays. But that's not to say the Bible is the word of said being. And that book is against gays.
LisaRose wrote:
I think the bible clearly does condemn homosexuality, but then it also very clearly condemns a lot of things. Most Christian religions these days have adopted a position of following the spirit of Christ's teachings without necessarily following the bible to the letter, and I think that is a good thing.
And that's one of the problems I have with it. How can you be Christian, but pick and choose what you want to believe? Yes, it's a good thing not to follow it to the letter, but why follow it at all? If one part's flawed, who's to say it isn't all flawed/wrong and nobody knows what to believe is real and worth believing?
Myelaine wrote:
Just like other sin, homosexuality can be overcome.
That about sums up so many Christian thoughts about being gay and it drives me nuts. This is like the "hate the sin but love the sinner" motto that so many use. It's such a back-handed way to be nice to others.
It's not a sin! If you say they're sinning, no. You can't claim to be supportive of gays. Get it out of your head that it's a sin and then we can start to have a conversation about your tolerance.
It is NOT a sin to be overcome. Don't quote the "hate the sin, love the sinner" mantra. It does not apply to gay people because there's no sin here.
Funny how that thought never (or rarely) seems to get applied to people who beat up their spouses or cheat on their spouses or do drugs. We love you, we just don't like your sin.
It's only when it applies to people the normal part of society sees as equal that they pull that love the sinner stuff. They know it's something different that isn't really that bad. There is plenty of hatred for people who commit other sins that others universally feel are bad.