It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars

by Newly Enlightened 11530 Replies latest watchtower scandals

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  silentlamb_silent_no_more

  Also shocking is the number of women in prostitution who suffered Childhood Sexual Abuse, which makes visiting prostitutes wholly inappropriate for anyone to do, but especially anyone who claims to be some kind of CSA advocate.
  

  Simon, a lot of them have been trafficked into it as well. I was watching Underage, Undercover on Discovery+ and it was a huge eye-opener. Girls being targeted between the ages of 12-15, perverts getting CSAM from them, to sell to other perverts.
  
  The internet is a dangerous place for children unmonitored.
  
  It is sad that many CSA survivors have went into this "line of work" because they were procured by those who love having power over another human being and making a profit. This sounds like slavery to me and the last I checked, slavery is illegal.
  
  This was another eye-opener for me. I used to live not too far away from those streets in Glasgow. It is sickening that this is the place it has become.
  
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDhYxVGTpgo
  
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  JWBeliefsDiscussed

  Glad to See that Kim Silvio has made it to this forum..........
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  JWBeliefsDiscussed

  #littelloyd is now down to 579 Patreons....
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  silentlamb_silent_no_more

  Las Malvinas son Argentinas
  
  The best way to control someone is to isolate them and I think Lloyd has her right where he wants her. Alone, no friends, stuck with two kids and her elderly parents are her only outlet. Being single with two young children is exactly the ball and chain threat Lloyd needs.
  

  He's obviously had her believe everything. That is how he has controlled her, kept her isolated from friends and family - typical narcissist AND JLE if you're reading that is exactly how you come across to everyone! An emotionally abusive husband and if you were in Scotland pal - oh boy!! You'd be up in front of the CPS for that because emotional/psychological abuse in the UK, is a crime.
  
  Dijana, if you are reading, I am so happy that you have taken your honour back, by going through these divorce proceedings. You deserve to be treated far better than what you have been and he does not deserve you, cheating scumbag! You are a beautiful woman and if you wanted to go into another relationship with someone else, I guarantee you, you will have no problems whatsoever. It is awful the way you have been treated Djiana and I hope you are seeing the light from a very long dark tunnel. Good luck with your course, stick at it and make a brilliant life for you and your girls. That's also what I have done, went back to college as a mature woman to change career due to a physical ailment that does not allow me to do certain jobs. You have definitely got this Dijana.
  
  
  
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  Simon

  You are a beautiful woman and if you wanted to go into another relationship with someone else, I guarantee you, you will have no problems whatsoever.

  I know you mean well with that comment, but I would suggest people don't get into relationships with anyone simply based on physical attraction, whether that is because you find someone else attractive or your rely too much on your own looks to attract someone. You should want someone who values you for who you are, who finds you intellectually stimulating and will want to be with you when your looks are something you both remind yourself about with old photos.

  Marrying for looks is a fools game that leaves people with someone who'll forever be looking over your shoulder to see if there is a better deal now available. It's no better than marrying based on someone's "spirituality" - it's not going to create a good marriage. Contrary to JW folk lore, marriage is not a 3 strand cord and if it is, whatever that 3rd cord is, is going to rip it apart. It should be you and them, just 2 people, united.

  I know that sounds ridiculously old fashioned, but IMO it's true and women shouldn't be told that their value comes down to their attractiveness.
  
  
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  KIMSILVIO

  I watched your original interview with him from a couple of years ago, before it was taken down. I think it’s a good idea for people who now find the channel problematic to ask for their videos to be removed.

  I found his interview with you to be very insensitive. One question in particular he asked you was intrusive and somewhat inappropriate, probably because he was thinking foremost of views and likes rather that you, the person he was interviewing.

  Thank you to the very kind person who taught me how to respond to messages, its not quite right, but I am working on it :)

  I know the exact question that you are asking and you are right, it was insensitive and I felt very uncomfortable. I had said prior to the interview to a friend that I would not answer any questions like that, however I didn't hold my boundary very well and answered the question. I have grown a lot as a person since then. I asked him to take my video down shortly after this all blew up, and to his credit he did without an arguement.
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  KIMSILVIO

  I think many of us have been 'victims' of Lloydy Boy's one way or another.
  

  Thanks Kim, I am absolutely kicking myself for not finding this forum sooner.....I feel at safe here which is a huge change xx
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  KIMSILVIO

  JLE, said is wife was at college?
  

  Yes, Dijana is taking a course on something she is interested in, and also felt that it would lead her to a career path for herself, so she would be able to support herself and the girls. It had nothing to do with Lloyd. She worked for many years to support them through the translating business (before Lloyd became an "activist" fulltime, I don't think she would want to go through that again.
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  KIMSILVIO

  So Dijana told you she was divorcing him? When did you hear that? Any other details about hiring an attorney, etc?
  

  Yes, and she told Lloyd that also. He was in Thailand at the time. He was supposed to stay in Thailand for 2 months however when she told him that she wanted a divorce, he came back from Thailand pretty quickly as he doesn't want a divorce. He wants to stay married to her and only visit sex workers "every month or two".

  Dijana had spoken to a lawyer prior to telling him that.
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  KIMSILVIO

  And thanks for answering our questions and engaging with us - we're a fairly diverse, inquisitive lot here.
  

  No problem at all, its quite therapeutic for me :) I am really kicking myself that I wasn't here a lot earlier. I notice some OG activists and community members in here - this is the "vault of secrets of the little Lloyd"