Women Over 40

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  • arrowstar
    arrowstar

    Rosemarie -

    I wouldn't go back to my 20s for the world. I was so untrue to myself. Not anymore and never again will I be untrue to myself. I have so much more now in so many ways.

    gumby -

    It's not that we like younger men more than older men...just there's more of them around who recognize what we have to give. A large number of older men don't see what we have to offer. Hang on to your lovely bride. You have a treasure there.

    It really comes down to this...we're strong...we're beautiful...we're smart...we're sexy...we're funny...we're caring...we ROCK!

    Lisa

  • patio34
    patio34

    Gumby said:

    The only thing sad about women 40 and over.......is in just a few years past that they go through the change.........then they get bitchy all over again! They only have a few years of their life that they are normal. Then agter the change they start getting the deep voice and black whiskers on their chins......dammit. As for men........well.......they are pretty much pricks their whole life..........so my point is........women win again.

    Wow, Gumby! Who do you know like that?? The only reason women's voices change is if they smoke. Whiskers? N.o. Plus, if I may presume to enlighten you, the "change" stops PMS, FYI. The mood swings are much less pronounced.

    So, live and learn from one who is such a woman and knows many more of us that are playing tennis, singing in barbershop harmony, activists, artists, volunteers, etc., etc. We now have the time constraints removed that we used to have when raising children.

    The original piece that I saw of this thread was by Andy Rooney and it was about women much older than 40. It was about women who were more his contemporaries (he must be close to 70).

    I also take exception to your statement about men. I know some really fantastic men personally and admire many more from afar, such as on this board.

    Cheers!

    Pat

  • Panda
    Panda

    Lisa, Great thread! And so true about us! I finally became comfortable in my own skin and quit trying to be anyone but me. And as an example of the forthright forties:

    My young woman friend Lisa was dating a much older guy. She wanted me to get to know him so we all went to lunch one afternoon. Well I took an instant dislike to this guy. And I became beligerent. I asked what a person his age was doing with someone much much younger. And why had he never been married? How old were his other girlfriends? Very straight to the point questions. Well we didn't get along. And Lisa asked why I was so punishing w/ questions. Well I said "if he was good for you I would've been nice but he just rubbed me the wrong way. "

    Turns out he was an ass and dumped her in Guyana or Venezuela someplace like that. Fortunately she is very capable and got home on her own... moral to this story... women over 40 have learned to listen to their instincts .

  • gumby
    gumby
    I also take exception to your statement about men. I know some really fantastic men personally and admire many more from afar, such as on this board.

    Hi pat,

    I was just being ;fa- see- shus. I wanted to make sure I spelled that correct. I agree that when people hit 40 and above.....they look at life a little more serious and life can become quite interesting. If I could pick an age....I would stick where I'm at........a 49 year old bastard!

    Take care,

    Gumby

  • berylblue
    berylblue
    Well I guess that would mean you older gals(40 and up) like the younger men then eh?

    Of course we do. We are like men in that sense. Who wouldn't want a hunk like Hamas on her arm?

    I wouldn't trade Tim in for anything.

    Conversation between a friend about men:

    Dee: "I'm trying in vain to train Justin. It's so hard. He just doesn't understand my sexual needs."

    Me: "Tim (56) came already trained."

    My young ex husband (15 years my junior) did not have a clue. I'm not saying all 24 year old men are clueless (I was 39 at the time) but he most definitely was.

  • berylblue
    berylblue
    I wouldn't go back to my 20s for the world. I was so untrue to myself. Not anymore and never again will I be untrue to myself. I have so much more now in so many ways.

    Very well put, Lisa. I feel the same. I have much much more to offer than super firm breasts (yes, they do lose their firmness, guys) and a tight butt. Although I gotta tell you, the advantage to being small breasted is....

    no sagging. None. Even at 48. And I breastfed for 5 years straight.

    Boy, am I full of myself today or what? I had an excuse last night, I was drinking. From where is all this arrogance coming?

  • gumby
    gumby
    Who wouldn't want a hunk like Hamas on her arm?

    I wouldn't! He looks big and bulky and would smash your arm.

    Gumby

  • berylblue
    berylblue
    Hamas.....big and bulky

    Oh, wow. I do hope so.

  • Frannie Banannie
    Frannie Banannie

    And.....a woman over 40 doesn't hafta smell, taste or wade kneedeep in bullshit to recognize when someone's tryin' to sell her a prettily tied package full of it.......(wriggles eyebrows)

    Frannie B

  • arrowstar
    arrowstar

    Frannie -

    You are a helluva woman, gal. Helluva woman.

    Lisa

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