thankyou Craig

by little witch 61 Replies latest jw friends

  • Aztec
    Aztec

    All I see is Barney Fife swingin his mod bat...LOL! Glad you are here...:-)

    Could you maybe help me figure out why I can't use emoticons now smartie?

    All the best,

    ~Aztec

  • onacruse
    onacruse

    Azzie, emoticons are coded to activate only after you've taken a shower...perhaps that explains why they haven't worked for you all this week?

    Craig

  • Angharad
    Angharad

    Thanks Craig

    We were away for the weekend so were hardly on the forum at all until we got back last night. I've just flicked through the thread glad you put a stop on it

  • refiners fire
    refiners fire

    So am I. They were piling on like crazy. Sheesh.

  • refiners fire
    refiners fire

    Well this is nice, Slashed to one thread and twenty posts again.Anyway, being as I cant start a thread to apologize I'll do it here.

    The whole thing started as a bit of a joke really. I was giving the young and inexperienced guys what i thought were a few pointers about scoring the chicky babes online. Based on my observations and experiences on the net.

    Ive had a number of mails from people who are deeply offended by what i posted and think Im a rapist. It was never my intention to imply rape, which is an abomination. I merely was trying to instill into the young guys that they have to be definite in their intent when in pursuit of the girlies. No more than that.

    Ive been out of the dubs a LONG time. And Im well over it psychologically. I often forget that many of the people here are still deep in recovery and easily hurt and I am often insensitive to their state of mind.

    No real offence was intended and I apologize to anyone wounded by my comments and quips.

    No further post on this matter will be made by myself

    Refiner

  • xenawarrior
    xenawarrior

    Ive been out of the dubs a LONG time. And Im well over it psychologically. I often forget that many of the people here are still deep in recovery and easily hurt and I am often insensitive to their state of mind.

    This is by far one of the most ridiculous things I've read from you yet RF. First you insult the women here and then you further insult them by coming along and telling them that the only reason they were offended in the first place is that they are still "deep in recovery" and "easily hurt" and then you offer them a some hollow apology by saying that you were being "insensitive to their state of mind". And you started that all out by saying that you are somehow much higher on the psychological scale because you've "been out of the dubs a LONG time. And I'm well over it psychologically"

    I merely was trying to instill into the young guys that they have to be definite in their intent when in pursuit of the girlies. No more than that.

    People weren't offended because of their previous association with the JDubs or their "extra" sensitivity because of it you blockhead!! They were offended because WHAT YOU WROTE WAS OFFENSIVE !!! And you just came by and dumped some more of it here.

    You may be over your JW experience psychologically but you have much bigger problems than that.

    XW

  • teejay
    teejay

    >>>> Well this is nice, Slashed to one thread and twenty posts again...

    I know what you mean, RF. I have been cut to twenty posts, too, and I have anything to do with it!! Guilt by association, I guess. At least I didn't call anyone a Brummie bitch. And at least we weren't disfellowshipped, eh? :D

    You know... at the beginning I really thought you were joking. I mean... some of your comments might have had a hint of truth but they definitely had a raw edge to them, and it seemed to me not unlike a comedy routine. As you saw, before it was over it spiraled way out of control, too far over the edge even for this place's "adult" section.

    Good of you to try to make amends here, though. I hope that those you may have offended take your apology for what it is. Now behave!

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    rf

    The whole thing started as a bit of a joke really. I was giving the young and inexperienced guys what i thought were a few pointers about scoring the chicky babes online. Based on my observations and experiences on the net.

    Ive had a number of mails from people who are deeply offended by what i posted and think Im a rapist. It was never my intention to imply rape, which is an abomination. I merely was trying to instill into the young guys that they have to be definite in their intent when in pursuit of the girlies. No more than that.

    Ive been out of the dubs a LONG time. And Im well over it psychologically. I often forget that many of the people here are still deep in recovery and easily hurt and I am often insensitive to their state of mind.

    This is an apology?

    It may not have been your intention to imply rape but that is exactly what you did. For a dfew examples and definitions please read http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/57914/1.ashx.

    your initial comments

    Once you get over there, face to face, you just have to be insistent. Theyll probably blush a lot and say "No, no, we mustnt" endlessly and come up with a million good reasons for not going thru with it. Dont listen. Keep boring in.

    Very important: Remember, its their job to be all shy and embarrassed face to face, Its your job to make the physical moves and make it happen. If youre looking for a strange woman to verbally agree to have sex with you youll NEVER score.Take it from one who learnt the hard way. Lol. You have to be strong and in charge in the face to face meetup. The "prior commitments" that were made in online chat will see you home.

    This is exactly what happens in a date rape. You think you are teaching the young and experienced how to score? You are teaching they have more rights than a woman and that they have a right to take what they want regardless of how she feels.

    You are also recommending cyber stalking - hunting on the net for potential victims - even lying in wait to find a victim.

    Your comments sicken me. And it has nothing to do with having been a JW or even having been the victim of sexual assault.

    It has to do with your attitude and your total lack of respect for women. You need to be educated about the real world. Any man who follows your suggestions could easily be charged with date rape.

    Listen -

    NO means NO period.

    No one gives up their right to change their mind - at any time.

    Welcoming you into their home is not a license for you to force, insist, coerce, or manipulate someone to give in to you

    To recommend or suggest anything less is to recommend rape - simple. Get it?

    Your sense of what is a joke is severly lacking Rape is never a joke

    Lee Marsh

    TSS BA Counselor Specializing in Sexual Assault and Abuse Issues

  • Simon
    Simon

    I think what was posted was crude and offensive and very demeaning to women.

    It is certainly not the kind of trash that I want on this forum !

    TJ: I reduced your posts after your continued insults directed at me. I'm getting tired of it and do not intend to put up with it any longer. Whether you post properly or don't post at all is really up to you.

  • teenyuck
    teenyuck

    Yes, Thank you Craig. I just read the complete thread....

    Xenawarrior said what I was going to.

    RF, Go get therapy. You need serious help from a licensed professional.

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