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DF_60
How many ways can a man romance a woman??
by dancnfool_60 40 Replies latest jw friends
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Frannie Banannie
Find out what SHE's interested in doing and make occasions to share outings doing what she likes to do, whether it be dancing, walking in the rain, on the beach, etc., going to swap meets/flea markets/garage sales, listening to tapes of the ocean's roar with music in the background, sharing a particularly fine wine and an intimate dinner for two at home or a picnic and the zoo....it doesn't hafta be anything fancy or expensive....
Frannie B
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Eric
Do a million things you never expect her to notice.
Borrow her car. Wash it.
If you're going to buy her a gift, get the components of a composite gift from at least three different stores and then wrap it properly.
If you buy her roses, trim off all the thorns. Except one.
Go window shopping. Tell her to try on those shoes. (The ones she wants, not the ones you want, dummy!) Make it her personal fashion show.
Fix the broken things around her home/apartment. Never go over your head.
Know when to get lost.
Is it too soon to call her? Nope!
Send her a card, but rarely buy one. Make one yourself, put it on her car window on the early morning of a night you couldn't be together. CAUTION: If this is done before your third date or especially after your last ever date you are in for a restraining order. Otherwise it is just so sweet.
Make her laugh.
Make her laugh some more. Physiologically, the laugh, the orgasm and the sneeze are all quite similar, but it would be silly to try to make her sneeze.
Pay attention to her nagging problems, solve or help with the ones you can. Never pry or go over your head.
Keep your own life going in the meantime, the fact that your hobby was saving kittens or blowing kittens up while you parachuted out of airplanes is part of what she was attracted to, and you'll need that if she's not the one.
Learn how to dance.
Always be honest, say exactly what is on your mind.
Celebrate her triumphs.
Keep a diary of your moments together.
Admit where you goofed,
Demand honesty, fidelity.
And do a million things you never expect her to notice.
Eric
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arrowstar
Eric...
Wow.
Wow
Lisa
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Stacy Smith
Last valentines day a guy struck gold with me when he filled my car with heart ballons. I opened the door and most of them got out and flew away. On the steering wheel there was a note saying "these hearts will dissapear but my heart is yours forever."
It was cute, we both got lucky that night.
He turned out needy and it didn't last long.
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rocketman
He turned out needy and it didn't last long
Sad. Yeah, romance can in some cases be nothing more than a veneer. But how does one know?
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tinkerbell82
my boyfriend used to write poems about me, which i think is so adorable...he's good, too, and i'm very critical of poetry, especially mushy love poems. ;)
i think the best way to show you are about someone is by doing something that takes actual effort on your part. i'd rather get a bunch of flowers that he pisked for me himself than the most gorgeous arrangement that a florist could design....that sort of thing.
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joannadandy
*snuggles up to Eric*
Hahaha!!
Honestly, when it comes to romance it's personalized things that make the difference, that's why ideas like "bathtub with roses" are nice, but it's not personal, I know he can read that in any 101 ways to woo your lady book.
The gifts and things done for me that meant the most were done at the right time, (when I needed them most) and because it was something I would like. Or was an inside joke between just us. That's the mushy stuff that makes a girl puddle.
So while I realize my post isn't helpful in anyway at all, it is true. If he just wants to woo her, there are plenty of books written just for that purpose. If he wants her to fall in love with him, he;s going to have to do this on his own.
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BeautifulGarbage
I guess I have been married waaay too long.
1. Clean the kitchen after dinner. Bonus points for making dinner too.
2. Supervise the bathing of kids.
3. Take out the trash and even remember to put in a new bag.
4. Bring me MY coffee in the morning.
5.Tell me you ADORE the new window treatment I made.
6. Scrub the toilet.
7. Tell me to go ahead and buy that *fill in the blank" that I saw on Ebay.
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frenchbabyface
Well A ROSE really touched my heart once ...
I've found it so cool, that I've gave one to my ex-boyfriend once ... he was surprised !!! (that touched my heart too - I mean the fact that he was surprise - because when I bought it in knowing that it was not usual, for a woman to do it, I also thought that if he wouldn't care about that gift, at least the Rose will look good on his table !!!) BUT HE WAS REALLY TOUCHED !!!