How many ways can a man romance a woman?? (page 3)

czarofmischief

Depends on the woman. Don't creep her out with a mushy love poem or a diamond bracelet right off the bat. Pick something you like to do and see if she wants to go. If she's interested, she'll come garbage picking with you. If she isn't, then you don't want to waste time and money taking her to the Top of the Triangle.

You want her to see what you are like, so take her to do something YOU like to do. Something unique, something fun, and something where she isn't threatened by your proximity.

Then don't call for three days. Unless she calls, in which case you can talk to her. But it is important to have her wondering what happened to you - it makes them think more about you.

Then invite her out to dinner.

Then have wine.

The rest is biology.

CZAR

gambit

Take her dancing... and if you don't know how, all the better... let her lead and catch on us quick as you can.

Jewelry is cool... but make it special by going out to eat and having the waiter/waitress serve it with desert (which you ordered when you gave the waiter/waitress the jewelry)...

Have flowers delivered to the workplace... nothing elaborate, and a suggestive note that she can share with all her lady friends...

Carnivals /Fairs /Amusement parks... but your not going for the rides, except the merry-go-round, kiddy bumpers, and pedal boats... cotton candy, dripping ice cream that you have to share before it melts... skip the popcorn...

A good ol fashion picnic with cold cuts and iced tea... a few strawberries or grapes for dessert.

The key to being romatic is to not be afraid... lighten up and enjoy yourself... she'll let you know if your on the right track...

happyout

Ok, first I have to call Nilfun out on her plagiarism of the song "One Hundred Ways" sung by James Ingram.

Second (pushes Joannadandy gently out of the way) I have to snuggle up to Eric

Third, BeautifulGarbage is right on the money from the married lady perspective.

Romance is really mostly in the mind. If he listens, remembers, and asks questions, especially when they are cuddling, he will be well on the way to winning her heart. Gifts are nice, but not the expensive stuff, the small and thoughtful stuff. Like, one guy I dated bought me a tin of teacakes, because I had mentioned to him how much I missed my grandmothers teacakes. They are not easy to find in California, and it really touched me that he went out of his way to get them. I had intended to break up with him that night, but that little gesture bought him another two weeks (not any nookie, though).

Good luck to "your friend"

Happyout

Mecurious?

not any nookie, though).

Not even a kiss?

Merc'

happyout

He got a kiss, and he was lucky to get that. Nice enough guy, but there was NO spark.

Happyout

nilfun

Plagarism? Ooh, that's harsh!

nilfun, of the "thought everyone would 'get it'" class*

SixofNine

How many ways can a man romance a woman??

There are nine different ways, but one man should only ever attempt six of the nine, lest he seem needy.

Six~ thine name means lerv class

Skeptic

Many, many good suggestions. I learned a lot.

When she talks, actually listen.

Encourage her to persue her interests, dreams and goals - such are what life is made of.

When you find she wants something, remember it and buy it for her. Usually the inexpensive things are the most appreciated, especially if they are not easily obtainable. (For some reason, I rarely have problems finding such "rare" items; go figure.)

Help her appreciate herself and help her see her inner and outer beauty.

Baby her when she is sick. Blankets, a drink, a comfy bed or couch, rent her favorite movie. You would be amazed how many women feel bad when they have a headache or a migraine. Treat her as you would want to be treated, and tell her it is OK to be sick.

Appreciate her intelligence. Most men are initimidated by an intelligent woman, so this will make you stand out.

Most importantly, do everything from the heart. A gimmick or trick to win her over will not work long-term. What you do must be completely sincere and heartfelt.

dancnfool_60

THANK YOU !!! THANK YOU !!!!

There has been such a great response to my question and some really great suggestions for my friend...

to clarify a little more I have had a few not know if this is a new date situation or a relationship that has lasted a while. Well they have been dating for about a year and a half. But like all things that are new they become common place after a while and that is where the romance comes in to keep the flame alive. All I know is that all your help will keep him from having to register for ROMANCE 101....LOL

thanks again

LIFES TO SHORT..DANCE NAKED AND WIGGLE YOUR ASS OFF

DF_60

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Maverick

Boy! What a load, man! Hey that's it! Be a MAN. Not some needy, whimpy, puppy all too happy to lick her boots! Wash the car? Wash the car? Flowers and poems, shit I can recite whole scenes from Hamlet. That don't mean do do! Be the first guy to show her your not some sap. Buy a back bone! God I need a drink after reading this polically correct crap! Gage her interest level first off. Hell if they like you, you can piss in the sink and they're OK with it. But if they don't, you can buy them a car and it would not help. Forget how you feel. Figure out how SHE feels. Your feelings mean nothing if she don't dug you pal! End of first lesson! Maverick

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