Elder comes to visit (page 2)

Nosferatu

He goes on about, how he and the hall misses me and loves me.

I missed this when I read your post. I got the same treatment when I quit the meetings. I HATE it when a MAN tells me he loves me. Boohoo, go drown your sorrows in your briefcase.

oh i got the same thing dude. elder has been haunting me for some time but im like whatever i can hide inside like all the other people can...... then one day the guy covers the peephole......... and i was expecting my mom and sister to be visiting that evening........ so like a dumbass i figure is them cause thats what they do alot......... opened the door and wanted to slam it when i saw it was him. got the whole we sure would like to see you at the hall bull sh*t and we have been missing you. i even managed to be polite and not scream that i only went to like two or three meetings in this cong before i said enough was enough......... tho i have known these people for y ears of being in the same circuit........... and not one of them has expressed anything of missing me in the nine months that i havent been to a single meeting or the months before that when occasionally id go to one. hell when i went to those two meetings i only got to talk to one or two people......... the rest ignored me..... and i have known most of them for years. yeah im really missed there cough*bullsh*t* cough. oh and he has the nerve to tell me that i need to start comeing back and that ill probably be swarmed by the sisters ........................ um ok then. im starting to get pissed at his bull cause when i said no i wasnt going to go with him to the meeting or wouldnt accept a ride from him sunday and didnt care that they were hosting the district overseer this weekend for the assembly. he said if i didnt then he would be back............. like what the hell is that gonna do. i didnt back down and cower at your feet this time what makes you think im gonna get tired of your bothering me and start comeing there so you will leave me alone ? grrrrrr i need an ejection doormat lol. well anyway dude keep strong and dont listen to there stupidity. i know it bites and irritates but hell with them. next time he asks................. go on about your girl and how pretty she is and just act so lovestruck that no matter what he says you can turn it around to praise her lol. see how long you can do that till he gets pissed off and leaves lol.

Euphemism

No, I'm not baptized

Glad to hear that! That's one less means of control they have over you.

I was just struck by the elder's reaction "oh, it's just a teen thing." If they were dealing with a baptized teen, I don't think they would shrug it off as easily. But as long as you're not baptized, you still get the nice-guy treatment.

Anyway, sorry to vent in your thread, smyler. Best of luck to you and lissy.

JT

congradulations on taking a decreet stand- you were cool about it

wish you well and you know we really do love you

you have no idea young man how many of us only wish like HELL we had an internet to turn to when we were your age

well we didn;'t and as Tupac would say "I ain't Mad at ya"

talesin

smyler,

WELCOME

Sounds like you have it together. Be strong, don't let them get to you. I am here in NS, too. If you want to talk, PM me.

missylissy,

WELCOME

Are you JW too? You've come to the right place, lots of support here.

prim,

hey, nice to hear from you, how goes it?

talesin

Elder comes to visit

SixofNine

Nosferatu

primitivegenius

Euphemism

JT

talesin

jgnat

Noumenon

Maverick

Yesterdays Child

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