More than likely the DFed one will get the cold shoulder or just a brief ... " I'm sorry such and such "
Funny as it is when I attended my mother's funeral at a Kingdom Hall, people thought I was DFed and gave me the cold shoulder pass. I was never baptized or DFed.
A friend that I grew up with was DFed at the time and he certainly was not talked to. I kind of felt sorry for him he was really not that bad of a guy. .