You know you all just never cease to amaze me. This what you said SF. You know, now I got it.
These people prey!
Now when I look back I can see that. It scares the hell out of me!
What do you have to do when you know a pedo? I need your input.!!
by avengers 38 Replies latest watchtower child-abuse
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avengers
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avengers
Oh, as to your PS - we all get messages like that when we start a new thread. You're not being persecuted.
ok. That's funny.
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sf
Andy, that FEAR is what he is banking on too.
There is nothing to fear here. Do the right thing. Unload it.
Tell him to his face : "how dare you put this on me. i won't live my life with this on my shoulders; for you. the guilt trip is over. i'm jumping the track."
Are you catching my drift here Andy? The longer you hold onto it the more you become a part of it.
I learned this recently with a secret I had held onto for too long. It backfired...on me! Not many think I'm telling the truth. And I was just the one who knew and held the secret until now, when it holds no more merit.
Rise above friend!
sKally
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Lady Lee
I've been thinking about this some more
These guys accept no responsibility for their actions. He has now dumped this on you. The girl who is now 18 will have to be the one to report it to the police but that doesn't have to stop you from doing what you can to make sure someone sees what he is.
Interesting that he waited so long to unburden himself. I agree with sf - Don't carry the secret.
Pedophiles are extremely manipulative. They plan their actions out very well. No action is taken without careful thought and consideration given to "what happens next."
Don't let yourself be the next one he manipulates
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avengers
Lady Lee and SF.
U 2 Are 2 much. YOU UNDERSTAND.
What to do?
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sf
Andy,
What is 'it' you are still not clear on as to 'what to do'?
You see, by sharing this with others, we now too are a part of 'it'. And some of us WILL do the right thing if we had the info you have.
Perhaps speaking to an objectionable attorney may help. Couldn't hurt. At least it would legally be kept confidential until you ARE clear on 'what to do'. Yet, as I see 'it', there is only one thing to do. You know it and I know it. How dare he put this on your soul. You can unburden yourself though.
I wish you well in whatever you 'do'.
Sincerely, sKally
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core
Law in the Netherlands requires anyone knowing of acts of child abuse to report it to the local Social Services who may or may not involve Police
Two people at least need help here - the victim, and the abuser
The victim does have moral rights to silence and may not want to have this issue brought into public play so as far as her identity goes you must decide what is best - as for your friend - you must have him reported so that a programme of remedial work can be put in place but more importantly he can be known to the authorities as a danger. The number of victims a a true paedophile is never NEVER NEVER ONE
The reported attitude of this person means he needs reporting as a protection to others - You have no choice morally here - report him and report him now. His cavalier attitude shows no repentance, lessening of the danger or remorse. Save others the fate of the young girl from years ago. Report him. Write to the Social Services anonymously if you want- they are duty bound to follow it up
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Stacy Smith
Aren't you supposed to kill them????
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avishai
Accidently kick his ass? hard?
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Descender
A hidden video taped confession would help send him to jail and would get the info out there to everyone who wouldn't have believed otherwise and might get him disfellowshipped as well (wouldn't count on that one though).
Invite him over, broach the converstaion again and tape him without his knowledge. Then, he's screwed.