What do you have to do when you know a pedo? I need your input.!! (page 3)

Lady Lee

OK I'm back

During my root canal (I had to occupy myself with somethign to distract me) I was thinking again.

Few of these men have only 1 victim. I believe the average of those who are caught is in the 70's before they are stopped. He has admitted this 1 to you doesn't mean there aren't others, perhaps many others.

I have this odd feeling that he told you for a reason. Perhaps to unburden his guilt. But what if he wants to be reported?

I truly believe these men understand on one level that they have committed a crime and a sin against an innocent child. Otherwise why lie about it? They know it is wrong and THEY will pay if caught. Why keep it a secret all these years? He knows what he did is wrong.

Years ago when I confronted my father about his abuse he answered "If you think I'm going to apologize, you're crazy". He didn't deny it. He didn't justify it. In fact he acted as if he had a perfect right to abuse me and there was nothing wrong with what he did.

But when I was young, he used every manipulative tool he could to silence me - I would be blamed and go to reform school, no one would believe me, he would hurt someone I loved, it would hurt my mother, he would kill me. He knew he couldn't risk being caught so silenced me. And my silence allowed him to continue his abuse of me.

Later on I found out he had possibly raped my friend's 5-yr old sister. Later I also learned he was stalking a young girl and went on to become a school crossing guard

By the time I learned all this he was disabled and restricted to home so was no threat to people on the outside but I sure made it known to all the family that he was a danger.

If he wasn't dead now I would do everything to make sure he was on the child abuse registry..

avengers

The number of victims a a true paedophile is never NEVER NEVER ONE

Please elaborate on that one.

Aren't you supposed to kill them????

Yeah, but then I would have to spend time in jail. Jail just isn't my favorite place. I have known this man since he was about 4 years old. He's about 31 or 32 rightnow. I have always given him the benefit of the doubt, even till these last couple of weeks until he told me what he did.
My mercy towards him ended then, and now I'm gonna hunt him down. He has no knowledge of this whatsoever, and that gives me an edge at this moment. Here's a little background: His Mom bore him out of wedlock somewhere around 1971. (Please forgive me, but I don't have the exact dates) She married a dubb in 1973, which makes the guy his stepfather. I was an M.S. in those days and this family was assigned to me. As I was doing a shepherd call I found his Dad had severely beaten him. I took the kid and his parents to the hospital to get stiches on his forehead. The kid was about 6 or 7 then. Up till this moment he still remembers that . This is where the "friendship" started. In 1975 a girl was born, same year as my oldest daughter. These 2 girls became friends. We used to do fieldservice together and everything seemed well,,,, until! I found out in the nineties that this stepdad of his had been sexually abusing this girl since she was a baby.Her mother filed for divource. The elders did not agree and her mother was DF'd. Her father was not DF'd, but kept his status as JW. At that time nothing was reported to the authorities, because the elders told everyone that they would solve the problem. After long talks with the girl in question, she decided to report the matter to the authorities on her own. I read the transcripts of the charge she filed. He was sentenced to a prison term of 2 years, but got out after serving 1. He was never DF'd, but instead the elders visited him regularly during the time he was in jail. The girl was shunned by the local cong until she finally quit going to meetings. The father in question is up to this day still an active witness. He regularly beat his stepson and his daughter. The stepson would always come to me when problems within this family arose. All in all he won my trust. In the meantime he aquired a girlfriend with 2 children, both girls. One day I talked to this girlfriend, and she said she was breaking up. She said that one of her girls told her that this man in question had "licked her genitals". (I warned you) So she broke up with him. This man in question came to me as a friend and convinced me at the time that it was the girl's imagination and he did nothing of the sort. I gave him the benefit of the doubt again. After this thing quieted down until he told me what really happened in those days. I'm really upset now. I also found out that this man in question has a violent record. Can't keep jobs, and torches evrything if it doesn't agree with him. I ask myself how I could have been so naive to have someone like that for a friend. The girl in question is not in danger at this time, since her mother won't allow him to come near them. I don't put it past this man that if he ever found out I'm doing this he would torch my house, since I found out he's becoming more and more violent. It scares me to know that there are predators like him on the street who look completely like normal people. What's in the mind of a pedophile? I wish I would have never found out. I am literally and physically nauseated by this. At this moment there's no immediate danger, because he thinks I'm still his friend and keeps contact with me.
Now it's my turn. I will try everything within the law to get him off the street. I don't know how yet, so all of you out there keep the ideas coming. The laws here in the Netherlands are not as advanced as laws in Canada and the US. There's still a lot of reform to be done concerning that. There's no place else at this moment to vent about this matter, so I hope you all will forgive me to burden you all with this. In all my imagination I could not have imagined this. It really baffles me. It really blows my mind. Andy of the superdisappointed in the slave and humanity class.

Angharad

p.s. Why is this?
You have started 0 topic(s) in the last
1 day(s) out of your limit of 2.
You can currently create 2 more which will increase in
1 day(s) 3 hour(s) when your oldest topic expires
Did I say something wrong somewhere? If I did tell me please!

No, that is refering to topics (everyone has 2 a day) not posts / replies (which is 40)

Good luck with the sitution, very tricky one

LittleToe

Is it possible that the ex-g/f will pursue the courts, as well as get a restraining order?
After all, it was her daughter that was abused.

I can understand your need to talk - this really is such a sick situation.

core

The number of victims a a true paedophile is never NEVER NEVER ONE

That was mine - not well written out - Lady Lee above has addressed this - my point should have been that a paedophile never only has one victim (actually from one abused person lots of others/relatives/friends are also victims) but simply stated - why would they do this once and stop! Such a person is a real and present danger - even after many years

greven

Now it's my turn. I will try everything within the law to get him off the street. I don't know how yet, so all of you out there keep the ideas coming. The laws here in the Netherlands are not as advanced as laws in Canada and the US. There's still a lot of reform to be done concerning that.

Andy, most lawyers here in the Netherlands have what is called a 'free half our' in which anybody can aquire information about the possibilities within the law and about pressing charges etc. You can just look up a lawyer or lawfrim that specialises in sexual abuse cases and ask for such a free half hour. This will make you at least more aware of the possibilities. I agree our law needs a lot of reform even lawyers and judges press for higher punishments and the abolishment of doing standard 2/3 of the time you are convicted of. So there is hope....Good luck.

Greven

avengers

Such a person is a real and present danger - even after many years

I know, and that scares me even more. Say you have this person locked up. After many years he could come out of nowhere to start the rampage all over again.

Think I'll move to New Guinnea or Borneo. I'm sick and tired of all this.

This dude also told me:

There's no way in the world paedophily can be banned, because there are just too many people who have these feelings and that kids also like it.

again I warned you.

I guess I unwillingly got my head stuck in a wasp-hive. Someone please end this nightmare.

Jehovah? Allah? where are you?

Oh sorry Allah's prophet was Mohammad. As I recall he married a 7 year old.

When Khadijeh died Mohammad at age fifty-six asked to marry Ayesha, daughter of his friend and first follower Abobakr. She was seven years old.
Abobakr requested from the Prophet to wait till she reached the age nine before consummating their marriage.

Andy, most lawyers here in the Netherlands have what is called a 'free half our' in which anybody can aquire information about the possibilities within the law and about pressing charges etc. You can just look up a lawyer or lawfrim that specialises in sexual abuse cases and ask for such a free half hour.

I didn't know that Grevin. I will definitely look into this. Thanks. You are all just great.

Abaddon

If there was no doubt in my mind about guilt, and no possibility of redress throught the courts, and no willingness on the part of the offender to seek help, I would be tempted to engage the help of a few friends, hold the guy down, carve 'pedophile' into his forehead with a sharp, clean knife, and then empty a bottle of ink over his face, rubbing it into the wounds carefully.

BLISSISIGNORANCE

God.............................do you really need us to tell you?

What does your sense of right and wrong tell you?

This person is an animal, a predator.......................think about it!

core

carve 'pedophile' into his forehead with a sharp, clean knife,

why waste a clean knife - use a dirty jagged edge - best for his sort of work!

What do you have to do when you know a pedo? I need your input.!!

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