Whats with the genoration of teenagers these days...?

by ChimChim 13 Replies latest jw friends

  • czarofmischief
    czarofmischief

    Sorry SFJim, but I gotta reply,

    a) teenagers have more ready access to firearms and other weapons than the previous generation

    Not true. There are more gun laws, more restrictions on purchases, and less prevalent firearm training in this generation than any previous American generation. It used to be part of every boy's training to learn basic firearm safety, maintenance, and use through hunting, Boy's Scouts, and other activities.

    (b) video game induced violence is a new, rapidly growing phenomenon

    You have to prove that statement. Video games are a FANTASY version of violence, which bears little or no resemblance to reality. If you are saying that video games, since their advent, have changed young people's viewpoint on violence, you are wrong. Kids have always played violence - it's part of human nature, helps establish social structure, and provides basic training in cause and effect.

    (c) both the entertainment and news media are publicizing and glorifying violence in ways never thought of by previous generations, all so they can sell more SUVs and junk food

    How would you feel about a story that featured a general executing his own son for disobeying an order. Then the general's enemies rape his daughter, cut out her tongue and remove her hands. Then the general kills the sons of his enemy and feeds them in a pie to their mother, before killing their mother. Story? It's by Shakespeare, written 400 years ago. Read the epic of Gilgamesh, or the real lyrics to "Yo Ho Ho and a Bottle of Rum" if you think that violent entertainment hasn't been exciting kids since early days. Yes, violence sells, because it is a natural instinct of humanity - especially when in the service of other ideals, like justice.

    (d) there is 30% more sugar in the diet of today's youth than that of previous generations

    Other than an increased risk of diabetes... what does this have to do with anything? I don't think it's a good thing, and I intend to monitor my own kid's diets very carefully, but has there been an established link between sugar intake and use of violence? I've never heard of it. You might as well blame the increased use of anti-depressants for the surge in violent activity - if indeed there is one.

    What I think is really motivating school violence is the lack of faith in the institutions of authority, like the family and the school administration, to resolve differences between students. A bully gets away with persecuting a victim, and the victim has less of a chance of having family to turn to for help, mostly because of the breakdown in marriage. An overworked, single mother can cope with a bully less easily than a two-parent family that can have "a hand free" to help the victim work with the school administration to resolve differences with the bully. So the victim turns to the eternal equalizer, the handgun, and kills the bully. But he's crossed a line, and therefore goes on a shooting spree that takes out anyone he feels persecutes or looks down on him.

    It isn't just single parent families, either. There are plenty of two parent families that don't pay enough attention to what their kids are doing, caring about them, and giving their kids the impression that there is a way to solve problems without violence.

    Gun control is not the issue - while the gun makes it very easy to kill, killing has been happening with knives, bats, and rocks for a long, long time. What kids need is a sense that there is a valid way to solve their problems without violence. When humans feel like violence is the only solution, that's when they pick up the gun.

    I'm against gun control - because it takes away the option of violent resolution to situations where violence IS the only option - like a breakin, or a fascist dictatorship.

    CZAR

  • ChimChim
    ChimChim

    Well my sister has told her mom... but she didnt report it she just said that if he ever calls here or comes near u shes gonna hurt him... I think she should have reported it, im not sure if my dad knows or not he probably does but I would be too scared to report it cuz im one of the few ppl that know about it and it might not take him long to figure out who told so im kinda scared

  • Dark Knight
    Dark Knight

    If a guy tried to rape my little sister, I'd beat the crap out of him too.

    I'd also consider desexing him.

    DK

  • simplesally
    simplesally

    Chim Chim, honey, I would not want to be in your shoes. It is more violent out there. For that reason, I moved to a more suburban area. I checked out my daughter's soon to be kindergarten (ok, soon for me, 3 years) and wanted it to be more like I grew up --- close to school. We can walk, we live in a nice neighborhood without busy streets, lots of horses and horse trails nearby BUT that doesn't mean she will be safe even though I did buy carefully. I want her to get in with the "right" kids, but even then, there are hypocrites. So, that does not answer your question.

    I guess, I just have to say, I see what you see. We all do. But, sweetie, the only thing you can do is start to migrate toward the people that keep up their grades, keep their nose clean (literally and figuratively) and keep on trying to be a good teen. You know, I know this sounds stupid, but life is not THAT short .... your sister and you don't have to start having boyfriends right now. There are SOOOOO many fish in the sea (I know it doesn't seem that way) and you can date til you are 105 and have your Mom's permission to finally go steady.

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