Yes, I would like to know the truth.
ex. I started dating someone in the early summer. He has been somewhat distant of late. After several weeks of asking what the problem was, I waited till he had a few beers in him, and started the interrogation.
He finally confessed that his BF had suggested I was 'after his money', so he was a little concerned.
My initial thought was "what money?"
My second thought was "if I was gonna prostitute myself, it would be for a lot more than dinner once or twice a month"
My third thought was "good by"
I was very pleased to know the truth.
Was I hurt? No.
Was I angry? Yes.
Was I sad? Well, just for him - he just lost something of REAL value - my trust and friendship.
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