God Have Mercy on Sister K.

by metatron 19 Replies latest jw friends

  • metatron
    metatron

    I run into Sister K. at her office sometimes. Everytime I do we 'get into it' about how awful things are in the

    organization.

    Sister K. talks about how untrustworthy the elders are, how the Society doesn't do anything to help young Witnesses

    who are leaving en-masse. She tells me how unloving her congregation is. She agrees with my logic on the Society

    damaging families by extremism and lack of love.

    She has tried to end her life more than once. She has fantasized about her kids getting resurrected if they died now,

    rather than later.

    She takes antidepressants like many local Witnesses I know. She cares for family members in poor health.

    Despite all of the above, she gets excited everytime some brother/ speaker comes up with some new speculation

    why the "End is Soon". She is often foremost in giving "righteous" comments in the Watchtower Study about

    loyalty and faithfulness. I guess sometimes people need to hear themselves say things out loud, that they have

    trouble believing. She attends most all of the meetings and is regular in service.

    Sister K is NOT a 'composite' fiction. All the contradictions I've mentioned co-exist somehow in one person

    who is a kind, decent , caring human being who says, in summary, "where else can I go?".

    I think there may be millions of Witnesses like her - suffering a kind of addiction they will never find

    any way out of - that's the truth about that "truth".

    God have mercy on Sister K. and all those like her. Welcome to the "Spiritual Paradise".

    metatron

  • cruzanheart
    cruzanheart

    I know many people just like her. Two of my few remaining Witness friends have to take antidepressants or they would not be able to attend the meetings at all. One of them, thank goodness, is starting to see the futility and mean spirit of the organization, and it's making her mad. She missed the last circuit assembly entirely, grumbling that it was unreasonable to expect her to work two jobs and then sit through two days of boring talks given by people she doesn't respect anyway. There is hope.

    Nina

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    Cognitive dissonance at its finest - belief in two opposites but not seeing the contradiction - ah the wonders of the mind

  • metatron
    metatron

    Indeed

    Wasn't it the Red Queen who used to believe as many as three impossible things before breakfast? ( Alice in Wonderland)

    metatron

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    When your life is a hell on earth it's pretty hard to let go of the idea that any day now ALL of your problems will be solved through the destruction of this system of things at Armegeddon.

    It's also hard to see the forest for the trees. It's hard to see or accept sometimes that many of these problems you have are caused directly or indirectly by being a JW.

    Heather

  • Flowerpetal
    Flowerpetal
    When your life is a hell on earth it's pretty hard to let go of the idea that any day now ALL of your problems will be solved through the destruction of this system of things at Armegeddon.

    It's also hard to see the forest for the trees. It's hard to see or accept sometimes that many of these problems you have are caused directly or indirectly by being a JW.

    Heather

    Amen!!!!

  • willyloman
    willyloman
    I know many people just like her.

    Me, too! We just had a visitor from another state who has been a pioneer for, oh, 25 years, at least. She was extremely critical of everybody and everything, and said so with almost no prompting from me. Her long-time elder hubby just stepped down after deciding "there was just too much politics." She cited all the faults listed in metatron's post, then said, "Oh, well, it doesn't make any difference, I'm going to gone soon." (She's 78 years old; by "gone," she meant "dead."). It's her strong conviction that everything is all screwed up in the organization, but after she dies Jehovah will either straighten it out, or not, but she won't have to worry about it. She had no answer to my question, which was: What do folks do who may have to endure this flawed organization for another 20, 30, 40 years?

    She can't wait to die! So much for "a better life now and in the one to come."

  • czarofmischief
    czarofmischief
    Wasn't it the Red Queen who used to believe as many as three impossible things before breakfast? ( Alice in Wonderland)

    It was six. Which is three less than are required to consider the Daily Text with your Cheerios.

    CZAR

  • rocketman
    rocketman

    Yep, they are out there. They see all that's wrong. And yet, they feel compelled to stay, for various reasons. In the case of Sis K, she evidently doesn't completely grasp how the wts treats her much like the Pharisees treated the common folk in their day. Or maybe she does, but she's understandably afraid to leave or even slow things down.

  • marriedtodamob
    marriedtodamob

    One of the things I noticed immediately when I attended a few meetings with my reinstating dub-hub was how absolutely miserable and depressed all the women in the congregation looked! They all had this far off "save me from this hell" look. I haven't gone back since.

    mobbie

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