It's time to have a real serious talk with her.
I've been there and it isn't easy.
It's time to find out if she intends to stay is this marriage.
Based on her answer, you'll know how to proceed.
With a list like that, it appears you have told her everything there is to be told about TTATT. ( I did the same ) She heard everything and is processing it. What she is planning is what you need to get to the bottom of.
Are you prepared to face DFing for apostasy and all that that entails?
I was am am glad I made my stand. I wish I had done it earlier.
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My wife and I are still together and are doing fairly well.
I've been out for three years and DF'd for one. We had our 2th wedding anniversary this year and I have made a serious effort to quit the anti-JW talk. It's very difficult to do, but it does make for a much more peaceful home environment.
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People talk about planting seeds.. We planted FARMS with our wives!
See what grows, it may be nothing or she make awaken without notice.
The more likely scenario is, 'she knows', but cannot face reality.
Furious cognitive dissonance is too strong to overcome at the moment.
Go easy and see what happens when you quit JW talk.
( Also, you should quit the meetings ASAP )