Hey, it sounds like the best on all accounts for this guy. He can "retire" from the military with a pension and go get a JW-approved job. He can eventually get reinstated. He can have a hot 18-year-old.
I would figure he wants to meet his young match before attempting to get reinstated, then he can have a normal dating/engagement period- meaning he can have premarital sex. What a good plan for someone who doesn't want to ever figure out that Watchtower is a lie.