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The title you chose for your topic, “When JWs come here ”, seems to suggest that this Forum is NOT first of all for JWs. Of course there’s no question about it that this forum is in reality an ex-JW hang-out. And that’s what’s so misleading about the heading on the left at the top of the main page.>
Come on now Yadirf, be fair to Simon now. Granted the site at first glance looks like a JW site, but by just a little use of basic reading skills and the ability to put two and two together someone could quickly figure out what it's all about.
Simon hasn't used any different technique for presenting information that at first seems to be one thing but in reality is yet another. I'm sure you are more than familiar of this technique, you have used it yourself many times. On a daily basis JW's knock on peoples doors stating their intention is for people to just simply study "their own" bible. I had such a presentation given to me a few weeks ago and listened to the same programed response I once use many years ago. In reality the purpose is to get people to have a bible study using creatively worded study aids so that the house holder will at some time become a JW. If you deny that than you are simply not being honest with yourself.
It is similar to the technique used by the Amway corporation. They realize that if they ask people to come to their house to preview a corporate sermon to try and entice them to drop a few bucks and then sell soap they would never gain a single salesman. The JW's realize that if they stated up front that they believed that the house holder was going to die along with their children unless they become a JW they would get anywhere at all. The very first introduction to the religion for most people is based on deceptive word manipulation.
Simon is just using the same technique of specific word and thought manipulation to entice an interest and then later explain the real intention, that's it. If you consider it deceptive then maybe you should look at what you say and what you really mean the next time you begin your presentation out in service. Being totally honest with myself is the key element that got me out of the JW religion. I figured if lying to myself was the only way I could justify my words then what I believed must be wrong. Think about it.
Dave