I have been goin out with this girl for a few months now and weve spent sooo much time together. Things seem to be goin really well and i feel like we will end up gettin married. But she seems to put her studies and family before me. Like she is worried that her family might find out about us and if they did its true some trouble would arise. But its the same with me i mean if i got caught my parents wouldnt accept it now...but yeah its just like..i dun care i still do it and take the risk to b wit her and i always put her before my self....she comes first in my life and i dun feel that she does the same......and i was talkin to my friends about it and they have had the same problem before where they have ended up breakin up with the person...some were due to reasons that the girl was more into money. THis seems to be a big factor like wit one of my friends relationships the girl just wanted money really...olike she expected expensive gifts and all..and i think its just stupid....money shouldnt determine love???? im worried that my girlfriend would end up like that i mean she studies relaly hard coz she wants to become a doctor....now i know the only reason for that is because her parents force her into it...plus she says its for guranteed financial security...but iwas thiknin how much money does someone need??
i mean u dont need to have some extreme high position job to live of well....u dont even need that much...im really worried as to if she is all interested in money as well....that would become aproblem for me beacuse i only care about love first and i dont want a relationship where someone cares about money to such an extent.....i dunno is it possible to have a girl that would put u before anyother?? coz im doin just that and it feels one sided i dunno?