gentle, sorry but I have to agree with amac and drwatson....you should reconsider your tone and approach.
we are both 'newbies' here, although we are coming from different places (I too am an unbeliever)... and you should consider the audience, experiences and background of the participants on a site that have been greatly harmed by a religion and "believers" quoting scripture in the cloak of spirituality.
most likely you didn't intend the tone you conveyed...written word especially in the form of email...can be easily misconstrued. but as more than one reader intepreted your post negatively, i submit the reaction is worthy of your consideration.
i also agree with amac ... and many of us who, while we may no longer believe, are familiar with scripture and Christ... i further offer you may consider applying the golden rule when you come to this site and consider our experiences prior to authoring your next post.