Orangefatcat,
Stories like yours make me smile--to know that in the face of all the pressure to conform to a freeze-dried style of love, you could overcome and do the thing that Jesus really commanded: to love your neighbor as yourself. That is no small matter!!! All that pain you and your friends endured... and God came thru and showed you that the love you knew He taught was not really there in the WT afterall.
I'm sorry to think that your parents are so cold-hearted. But the story is not over yet. Hearts can yet thaw!
Thanks for venting. God blessings to you. Don't you lose the soft heart!
bebu