Actually where I live, people don't have a problem with JWs going to college like they use to and it seems to be quite acceptable.
That's true in the cong. that I occasionally attend also. I think in the last 10 years of so, the stigma of college has all but disappeared, as long as you can attend classes but still live at home. Even at a circuit assembly a couple of years ago, I recall the CO mentioning that those that choose higher education should discuss it with their parents to make sure that the education will help the person support him or herself later down the road and to avoid courses that could harm one spiritually.
To think of it, I think just about every 18 to 20 year old in our cong. is in college or some tech school. Having just a high school diploma in many cities is virtually worthless when looking for a job.
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