You naughty Banana! You wrote that all very well. This concept has occured to me, perhaps not in the detail you gave. Now that I am out of the JWs, I tend to see it more in other people that I interact with. They are mostly Baptists or Nazarenes or some other highly Jesus Freaked group.
What I kind of notice too is that this abuse pattern comes in layers like a stack of flap-jacks. Religious abuse + familial abuse +food/substance missuse. Those all tend to be negativly reenforcing. To get out of one is a long slow spiral, that may also help end the others too. --I'm rambling--
LOL, DkUnc! Thanks. I see it in other religiously-oriented ppl too, now that I'm out....the WTS has taught us how to recognize their ilk very well, huh?
Interesting comments about the abuse pattern in layers....and oh, so true!
Cheers!
Frannie B