Hi Vienna:
I guess I fall under the category of JW technically, in name only, since I don't want to "da" myself and lose association with my family, but I don't attend meetings anymore.
And right now, I question everything so I am still looking for what I believe that makes sense.
As to your statement:
I admire any JWs who come to this board--seems hard to put up with a lot of the comments here
Which JW's are you referring to?...the ones who like me are still stuck in the org. because we have family we don't want to lose?..or the JW's who come here to spout off the self-righteous, sarcastic, name-calling. I don't know how long you've been coming to this board but we've had a few come here to try to run us down into the ground with their "you all are stupid and doomed and I have the truth and will be saved and I will laugh at your slaughter at armageddon".
I sure hope those are not the JWs you admire.
Those of us who are still trapped in name only as a JW, do not find it "hard to put up with some of the comments here". The comments here that I have found have mostly been encouraging, upbuilding, supportive, funny, sensible, intelligent and extremely well-documented.
If someone claims to not believe in God anymore, I don't have a problem with that. That is their own personal choice...that works for them.
Had Enough