Ran into "bible student" , told by Sis. Holy" SHE WAS NOT GONNA MAKE IT"..

by LyinEyes 27 Replies latest jw friends

  • Winston Smith :>D
    Winston Smith :>D

    LyinEyes,

    After reading that post I can't think of one thing that I would have changed.

    You handled it wonderfully!

    I also think that what motivated you to say what you said is wonderful as well.

    You didn't approach her because you were bitter at the JW's.

    You didn't go to her to persuade her to your line of thinking.

    It seemed that you approached her because you genuinely wanted to ease her pain and help her.

    And that is in such stark contrast to what motivated us, well, at least what motivated me many times when I went in field service.

    i was motivated to get my hours in. Sometimes otherwise, but mostly it was the hours and it was a thing I had to do.

    Here, you wanted to help ease someone's pain.

    I haven't formed many answers for bible Q's that I have now, but I am sure of one thing:

    That your attitude and the way you approached her was in the spirit of what I would envision as a true, Christ-like spirit

    Keep up the good work!

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    You ROCK, girls!!!

  • orangefatcat
    orangefatcat

    Way to go Dede, your the coolest!!

    I am very proud of you. And yes you have come along way baby.

    Love OrangefatcatOrange Fat Cat 15 Circle Of Hearts


  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    Dede,

    I have had a stressful few days, I mean stressssssssssssFUL. This was very encouraging: reading about you helping lift the mean, nasty burdon Sister Holy/Nasty Bitch landed on the lady you mentioned. Good for you. Doesn't this feel a whole lot better than telling people about the WTBTS? Good for you. You go girl and you rock, too!

    Heather

  • LyinEyes
    LyinEyes

    OH YES!!!!!!! I remember you (((((((((((((Sunny)))))))))))))!!!!!!!! great to have a fellow about.com JW turn to the "unDark side" hehe. I am so happy to see so many leaving the borg.

    That is what made me feel so good about talking to that lady, because it was like if she and her family never set foot in that kingdom hall again,,,,,,,maybe their lives will be saved literally. Maybe they will have little children who will never grow up JW, who will celebrate birthdays, Xmas, all the normal things I didn't do, and my kids didnt do until 2 yrs ago.

    It is funny how many people you meet at the grocery store, the local bar, the post office, etc. in your own home town, that want to ask me questions about why we arent "preachers" anymore? It is is like we are so approachable now , as before they kept us at a distance , as we did them.

    That is one thing being JW, really does to hurt you,,,,,you are supposed ,,,,to have friends in the hall, but you don't . You are alone, in my case we had many old ones and no one to talk to even close to my generation. Being a JW takes you away from not only life, but human contact on a real level.

    (((((((Winston)))))))), thanks for the kind words, if it were not for learning to express myself , mainly on this board,,,,,,, I might not have said what I did. Now I dont have fear that it will get back to Sister Holy,,,,,,,,,,,in fact I hope she hears it ALL!!!!! LOL

    (((((((( OrangeFatCat)))))))))) love ya , lady,,,,,,,,,love your icons too!!!!!

    ((((((((((Little Toe)))))))))) I hope to one day have the sprituality that you have, it's a beautiful thing.

    ((((((((FlyingHighNow))))))))) I cracked up when you called Sister Holy......." Sister Holy,Nasty Bitch"...........LMAO, that is so true about her!!

    (((((( Bebu )))))))))) you are so right , "gotta love it",,,,,,,it's so fun to tell the REAL "truth" now......lol.

  • sf
    sf

    Dede and Rot,

    Yes, it's me...'PB'. And I've watched your progression out of the tower all this time. It was great to see you at the apostofests (photos) with exjws. lololol I was sitting here saying to myself as I viewed them and read your posts "they have come so far, especially Dede".

    I am just happy for you and your kids. Remember how your son and my daughter chatted a few times? It was cool. Oh, and "JudgeJudy" frequents yahoo chatrooms occassionally; unless she see's my name in there...she huffs her disfellowshipment crap and instructs the room to ignore me, then leaves. LOLOL!! Oh, I loveeeeee the persecution. LOLOLOL!!

    Well, just wanted to let ya know, finally. I've debated it a long time; telling you.

    You posted in a thread re: who "PB" was: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/25407/323747/post.ashx#323747 .:

    [[ I stopped going in because ,i no longer felt part of them. I started going to Timothys chat room first for ex jw's. I started making new friends and started hating some of the fools I met in the about.com. I always talked to the d/f or d/a ones and tried to understand them, I was curious as to why they were so bitter . I would love to find a woman named PB and little d . They were big time apostates who stired stuff up. I think i do remember guest 54. There were alot of weirdo stalkers in that room too. I love this room. So far the people i have met here are truthful and that is very important to me, I want to know what I am dealing with at the get go. I guess that is why I am so forward and blunt , you get what you see from me. ]]

    When I read it, I was like..."oh man, if she only knew". Well, now you know. LittleD is still going strong too. You can find us in yahoo jw chatrooms mostly now...doing EXACTLY what I did in about.com room...innoculating the room with websites, documents, etc. Hope you can stop in sometime.

    Take good care and tell your son my daughter says "hey".

    sKally

  • LyinEyes
    LyinEyes

    PB, I mean sKally,,,,,,,,,lol,,,,,,,oh my gosh, it is amazing , the journey of leaving the JW's. I am glad to hear about Little D,,,,,she is a sweet soul.

    I remember Judge Judy.....omg,,,,,,,,,,,LMAO!!!!!!!!! See made me sick, as a JW.......talk about wacko.

    I remember taking alot of heat talking to the disfellowshipped ones,,,,,like you and Little D. If someone didnt say they were d/f , people would talk to them. But ones like you and little D that stood up for what they knew about were to be shunned as the Anti-Christ. I remember still talking to you anyway,,,,,and yeah arguing too. But I always saw a side of you, that had been thru alot and had pain issues, even then I could understand that. So many of the JW's at about.com , didnt care what you went thru, or the pain anyone felt, you are d/f you deserve to die, was their mentality.

    Do you remember Judge Judy,,,,,,,hehe, at the name..........said your daughter was gonna die at Armeggedon? She made me so mad, even as a JW, I never felt it was my place to go around Judging if someone was going to make it in the end...........and this "sister" Judy,,,,,,,had the most rude , crude way of falt out judging your very young little girl. She and I were never on the same page after she did that.

    In my mind even then,,,,,,, I just didnt believe that all were gonna die in Armeggedon,,,,,,,surely Jehovah was going to save the children, the innocent, the sick, the good, etc.

    It is funny how this thread has come full circle to me.....When I was talking to that lady at the grocery store, as an "apostate" d/a exjw,,,,,,,,,it was the same subject that I felt so strongly about as a devout JW elder wife, aux, pioneer,,,,,,,,,the judging of people , giving them a death sentence. I still feel the same about that as I did then,,,,,,,,,now I can stand up and say for sure what I feel to be true without having to watch my words , so the other publishers wouldnt say I was being " too soft hearted" lol.

    My son is having a blast in high school, he is into football, all district defensive back, all district academic football, being trained by a NFL draftee in weight lifting at the school, honor roll , beta club, class president, I could go on , but you probably have heard me bragging on him already.

    Next time you run into some of the old jw chatroom Jdubs,,,,,,,,,tell them all about me ,,,,,,,spread the word,,,,,,,,keep planting those seeds PB. They may take a little while to take root, but the branches of the tree that was a little seed, is in my mind like my children, my grandchildren and so on. These are all the lives that now have a chance at happiness and freedom. The Jdubs can't have that little parable to themselves anymore...........hehe.

    Thanks for putting up with me PB,,,,,,,,I really did always enjoy our private conversations, and you were the first one to tell me about the Dateline show.

    Just keep stirring those dubs up , I am sure deep down inside of many of them are doubts , conscience that will not leave them alone. It is only a matter of time before the WT loses even more die hard JW's.

    ((((((((((((((((((((((PB and Little D)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) love ya ladies, Dede

  • sf
    sf

    Dede,

    This is the other thread that you made comments re: "PB":

    http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/40085/550143/post.ashx#550143 :

    [[ I have no idea if this person is the same person you speak of, but I used to chat with a person named PB, in the old about.com JW room. The person seemed of the female gender but that could have been a cover. This person said she was disfellowshipped and not many would even speak to her in the room. There were many that attacked everything she said.

    She was one of the seeds of doubt that was planted in my head, many things she said about the organiztion before I even thought of it. She knew a year in advance about the Dateline thing. Maybe that was not a hard thing to find out, but she knew also that it was being put off to get more info gathered.

    I have asked about this PB hoping to find this person to thank them for the interaction we had. I recall some of the witnesses on the board attacked her and her daughter, and openly said her daughter was going to die in armeggedon, she said the child was 11 or so. I attacked back to everyone in the room, saying they were not God or the judge. I even then had a hard, hard time believing that My God would destroy children just because time ran out.

    Like I said, this PB wouuld come in the room also under diff. names, diff. genders,so I am not sure a child exsisted really. If anyone knows who I am talking about , please let me know. I would like to contact this person or have this person contact me. LyinEyes/Dede ]]

    Take care, sKally

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