by Maverick 92 Replies latest social relationships
I spoil my son and daughter both. Kid's should be spoiled. But there's also common sense. I'll never buy my kids a car...but will let them borrow one of mine, and they get to pay for the gas...part of the insurance, etc.
Interestingly, and in line with this topic, did you know it's the women who nurture the spirit of "machismo" in hispanic cultures?
I certianly wasn't spoiled by my father,and I know many fathers who would never give all that to their children.
Nothing wrong,with giving our children material things,but teach them the value of money and teach them they will have to work for things.
Not only are girls/women spoiled. Our son's rotten and has lots of "stuff". We make no apologies....yet. However, we have tempered our spoiling him with a certain amount of needed discipline. (Translation: He ain't running the house!!) He is young and we feel that too many bad things have been done to children, so we try to provide him with a loving stable environment. This world is cruel by all accounts and we prefer to make memories. Life's tough.
Asleif, who's motto is..."Only weak men are intimidated by strong women"
Wow, no one could say this better. I am going to remember this because it explains male dominant cultures in a nutshell.
As for DY's sickening comments, I've noticed that it's rare to see a white man with a hispanic woman. Most white men are with white women. No mass exodus to Mexico for wives going on here. Thankfully, most hispanic women I know do not share DY's view of men or women. Otherwise, I think I'd develop prejudice against them. More than once in my adult life I have had an unscrupalous hispanic woman come after my guy. The last time it happened it went something like this: "Do choo want to come to my couseen's for big party?" <....Hispanic woman. "No thank you." <......my guy. "What? Chore wife weel keel joo?"<.... Hispanic woman. "No. I'm not interested in any woman but my own."<.....my guy. "Pffft! HuuuWhat kind of mane are choo!!!????"*spits on floor and huffs away very indignantly*<........Hispanic woman.
Some hispanic women, I'd say a big minority, have this idea that they are superior to white women and can steal any white man from his wife or girlfriend.
Now, why is it that alot hispanic men chase white women? I've had this happen to me and seen it happen to plenty of other white women. If these hispanic women are soooo superior then why can't they keep their men from chasing white women? Happy coupled men don't go out chasing other women, white, black, hispanic, asian, etc.
Heather
Edited to add: I forgot that my guy responded to the hispanic woman: "Bueno." While pointing to himself. That is when she stormed off: rejected. I get what I want from him without playing games. Game playing is exhausting and unecessary when you have two mature adults in a relationship.
Show me a male who a woman can be an intelligent adult with and you will being showing me a real MAN.
Heather
Whoa, chill out y'all!!!
Plainly speaking from what I've seen, heard, and experienced.
"Truth grows more and more scarce these days as more and more people can't handle it."
DY
cute quote...I suppose it might be the "truth" in your universe, but apparently not everyone agrees with you. go figure...
S'ok though if you need to be a doormat to get men, then you go girl some of us have a bit more to offer and a bit more self respect.
Xena, couldn't have said it better if it tried! But like I said before, there's someone for everyone....and thank goodness DY found her someone ... lol
Plainly speaking from what I've seen, heard, and experienced."Truth grows more and more scarce these days as more and more people can't handle it."
Yesirree, this is why there are vast amounts of white/caucasion women who can't seem to find a man. NOT.
Like Bisous so aptly pointed out: only a$$holes will go to other cultures to find subservient women to dominate. So if you invite the a$$holes over to your culture then you are doing us white/caucasion women and asian women a serious favor.
DY, from your profile I see that you are still in the org to a point. You are heavily influenced by your culture as well as the WTBTS to think the way you do. I used to live in West Texas and Chicago where there were many hispanic JWs. It was the consensus among the hispanic JW women and white/caucasion women that more hispanic men bullied, dominated and beat on their wives than did the white brothers. It seems to me a huge price to pay to keep your husband "happy".
I'm sure you are a wonderful person, DY. You just aren't very enlightened when it comes to worldly, white culture. And hey, isn't it the lovely Jennifer Lopez whose white man couldn't keep his hands off a white stripper? Where is her Ben now?He had hispanic and he went back. Hispanic women are women. Women are human. Seems to me it's a challenge for any human to hold onto a relationship or marriage. White women don't have the market cornered on unhappy partners.
Heather
fathers have spoiled their daughters and turned them into princess monsters
Princess said: Hey! Iresemble...um, resent that comment!
I can testify that Princess was definitely spoiled, but not a princess monster, just a Princess. There's a reason she chose that name, other than being the only girl with 3 brothers.
She was 10 years old when her youngest brother was born, and truly could take over and do almost everything for him. She was like a second mother to him. She was incredibly mature from a very young age, and because of how responsible she was, she was given lots of freedom that she rarely abused. She earned every privilege we extended to her, by being just a wonderful daughter..................and she still is. I learn from her all the time.
Her two older brothers tormented her, as most brothers do to their sisters, but they are all very close friends now, so something worked in their family chemistry.
