Elderwho that is a good point, i've never thought of it like that (only faded in the last year or so).
I got totally confused reading R Franz's books, about what the 'hope' of the great crowd was meant to be. Got that one on the 'backburner' of my shaky spirituality!
I will be going to the memorial this year (grin and bear the awkward questions). I always accepted the memorial (tho I felt guilty about not 'feeling' appreciative enough or anything). But I thought it was nutty how the MS and elders who did the passing round had to line up in a row and pass it along to each other afterwards. Also annoying how the speaker stays on the stage and tells us boring incidental details about the type of wine and bread they use. My hubby was an elder and he didn't do this, he sat in the audience when they were being passed round.
By the way I checked with him just now about DF'd ones, he said that definitely the policy is to include them. Must be a few errant elders who decide it aint enough to consign someone to tartarus, you gotta rub it in some more on the occasion we're supposed to be reflecting on God's love and mercy ..
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