alan
great post and my wife and i would like to think you guys as well
I have always been impressed by the White Bro and thier willingness to question the Society, but sad to say from my personal point of view for black bro it is much harder
wt has promised black folks that they can be equal to a white man
and for many including myself that is very appealing not all blacks like a Jesse jackson type SO wt offers something that as a black person you can grab hold to-
due to the world that I live in as a black man i see it
while many white bro in my exp held down jobs where they served in leadership roles the hall was merely an EXTENSION of thier life exp in serving in leadership roles
while for most of the black bro i knew growing up - right till when i stepped aside the Hall provided them that opportunity to BE IN CHARGE that they don't get from thier jobs
so while he may be BRO MAILROOM DURING THE DAY--- at night he steps into the phonebooth and changes to Super "HNIC" smile
it pains me to see how many of my black bro who when we try to tell them and help them they are the slowest- while many of the white bro as soon as they realize that they have been hoodwinked and bamboozled THEY ARE OUTTA HERE
while the black bro are like WELL LET'S WAIT AND SEE IF JAH STEPS IN
A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF that is my mother-in-law-
from the day i met her some 15yrs ago she has know me to be a serious man of God - a true Society Man- no foolishness, but a good solid bro and later an elder- she saw me take her daughter and never once has she known me to do anything off the wall
she saw me give up all my titles and positions while she saw other bro literally about to cry cause they could not get appointed
and i asked her about 2yrs ago in my wife's office
"Did you ever wonder what in the world did james read or hear or see that would make him of ALL FOLKS just throw it all away"
and her response was SHE NEVER EVEN WANTED TO KNOW
and it just blew me away- for here was my own mother-in-law and she didn't even ask or say
james i want to know what in the world did you find out about the org- now i am not saying i will believe it , but AT LEAST I WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU FOUND?
AT that point is really hit me as to the depth and intensity of the wt indoctrination process on the minds of the avg jw
the funny thing about it she complains all the time about the cong0 and what the org is doing
you can't help but feel sorry for her- she has spent her entire life in wt for the most part and the day will come when she realizes she wasted some 30yrs and the depression that she will exp will be great indeed
we will be here for her for she will never get to cash in her WT coupon of life under a fig tree
how sad
james