Young Non JW wanting to date a JW.

by moshell 11 Replies latest social relationships

  • jgnat
    jgnat

    moshell, a person who "can't stop crushing" is called a STALKER nowadays. I am sure you don't want to do that. If you ask this fortysomething woman if it is possible to overcome a strong crush, I say yes, yes, yes!!! It just FEELS like you can't get over it because you haven't done it yet. By the time you are fortysomething, you WILL have covercome a few crushes, and SURVIVED.

    You haven't said if this attractive young man is even interested in you. He has many more hurdles and hangups than a regular guy to get over. Tops, is that he is not supposed to have anything to do with you, a "WORLDLY GIRL" (their lingo). It is highly unlikely that he would ever introduce you to his family as his girlfriend, and if he did, all dates would have to be strictly chaperoned (you would also be asked to join a "study" as well). In other words, you would have to completely give up who you are today (your identity) to be with him.

    Take it from a fortysomething woman. NO MAN is worth giving up who YOU are.

    Take his picture off the wall, start a fresh diary or blog, strike up a conversation with ANOTHER cutie at school, and the crush will eventually dissipate.

  • Flash
    Flash

    moshell,

    Can you say 'CONTROL FREAKS?'

    Learn about God from them...yet keep them at a distance!!! They will try to worm their way into your head with their faulty reasonings and questions!

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