by kls 16 Replies latest watchtower beliefs
I'm thinking your husband needs to be turned over to the elders for a judicial review of his foul language! If you turn him over it would only be "for his own good," right? My lordeee I hope he said six or twelve extra prayers for forgiveness.
Gretchen
Gretchen 956, Ihave told him i was going to turn him over many times ,when i tell him that he says who will they believe , someone in good standings that has been in 28yrs or you . My husbands nick name for me is f------b----. I can handle that but thinking these molestings are not true is making me sick.
He has started a fuse in me and he and the watchtower better watch out .
You have started a war and i will see it through. This is a promise
There is no fury like a woman scorned ( ha) what till you see what a pissed off women can do.
My husbands nick name for me is f------b----.
If that hasn't pissed you off.....
he then told me if i like Silentlambs so much i should go f--- them. Spoken like a true cult mind.
Cult mind and HYPOCRITE! It's funny how God's ancient organization can err badly but not His modern day organization??? NGO
You said you would have "turned him over many times" and he responds by saying "who would they believe yourself or somebody that has been in good standing for 28 years"?............... Personally I would take the risk!
He sounds like an arrogant man who thinks that he somehow has divine protection which allows him to speak to you in such derogatory terms. Whether he is a JW or not, nobody has the right to speak to you like that!
If they can go around banging on doors at inconvenient times, shoving their message of doom and gloom at us, then they certainly don't have the right to undermine our beliefs when they are founded upon fact!
Your situation sounds difficult and must be really hard to bear. I wish you well and sincerely hope things change.
baysixforme.
kls, you are being abused. I don't know about physically, but mentally. You should seek out your local domestic violence center and read up on what this can lead to and how to protect yourself. I work with this somewhat so if you want to pm me privately I would be glad to discuss it with you. I was married to an abusive man myself for 15 years and I know how hard it is. In my case I didn't believe in divorce because of the WTS. I came to realize that if I stayed in that marriage it would kill me one way or another. I got out of the marriage and out of the organization in one fell swoop.
Before you go there (starting a "war") realize that your husband could escalate this into something harmful to you and any children. If he has so little value for you as to call you this name, I'm sure there are others to, at any rate, don't take the chance.
Good luck!
Gretchen
OH MY!! I so agree with gretchen. This will escalate. I speak from experience. It is time to make decisions and move on them. My heartfelt best to you.
