Let me see here... So none of you believe what the Mormons are doing is valid. You do not believe it is an authentic practice that will have any bearing on anyone's eternal life. It is being done only for DEAD people. You believe the dead are totally unaware that anything is being done "for them". It is not a matter of public shame to the families of the dead since no one knows any ordinances are being performed (other than the few faithful people involved in the ordinances themselves).
But....
Many of you are "outraged" that anyone would do such a "horrible thing" to your dead ancestors as to give them them a chance to be taught what they didn't get to hear in this life. Woooo, awful, horrible, baaaaaaaad Mormons! Yep, them taking time out of their busy lives, away from their jobs and families, to travel to the temple and perform ordinances that are of no benefit whatsoever to themselves, but can only intended to benefit others, wow, that's REALLY BAD!!!! How dare they!!!!
Can I end this sarcasm now? Has anyone gotten the point? Anyone at all?
English Patient wants to visit people on the next block who are total strangers and do vengence on them for being part of such an evil organization. What a man! While you're at it, go beat up on the nuns who dare to flaunt their religion by wearing those get-ups out in public. Surely they only do it to shove their religion in our faces!!! Yeah, that must be it!!! I'm sure you can really teach them a thing or two, English. Maybe they'll remove their robes before daring to walk down YOUR street!!!
The world needs more violence and hate, EP? We don't have enough already? Shall we now do violence on good people just because we don't happen to like one facet of their religion? You really think that's going to make the world a better place?
Bottom line, folks ... If you don't believe what is done in the temples is of any value or has any effect on the dead, then why get your shorts in a twist over it?
I lost a child. I held its tiny body in my hand -- yes, in one hand. If any of you Catholics want to light a candle for my child, please feel free. Light a whole box of them. If you want to light a few for a mother who still grieves over the loss of her child, feel free to do that to. If you want to say a rosary for me or for my child (if that is part of your belief) please do that to. If you are Jewish and want to do whatever your faith says you can do for my child, please feel free. If you are wiccan and want to do some ritual under the full moon, feel free.
In no way can the prayers of the faithful OF ANY RELIGION harm my dead child. I have no reason to be anything but grateful for anyone who cares to do any religious ritual intended to be of BENEFIT AND BLESSING TO MY DEAD CHILD.. Whether what you do is valid or not, God will bless you for caring enough to do what you can for anyone who has died, who has suffered or is now suffering, whether family to you or not.
What can the world use more of -- those who do too much to help others, or those who do violence and intentional harm?
The dead can use all the prayers they can get. God will know which ones are valid, and he will recognize and honor the ones he choose to recognize. He will also know who is doing what they can out of love for others and who has another less exalted agenda. Don't you trust him enough to let him do his part?
Why don't we all do what we can to make things better, in whatever way we can, and leave the rest in his capable hands? Is that so hard?
As always,
Susan, of the temple-going Mormon class