Hi there Silentlambs,
Your Mom is certainly using a lot of Watchtower clichés. It is really amazing how successful the Watchtower Society is at putting all these thought stoppers into the minds of their faithful followers.
dear son,while i wish you happiness, i am having health problems now from your decision to be at odds with jehovah's organization, and when you said you didn't feel it was neccessary to talk to jehovah everyday once a week would be enough. that really hurt. becaues i remember when you loved to talk to jehovah everyday. he is so kind and helps so much. i would never want to live a day without telling him how much i appreciate the things he does for us each day to just help us live and breath. i will always love you "unconditionally" but i truly feel you have been decieved by apostates and i feel when they are done using you, they will hurt you beyond description.
Jehovah's Witnesses which is probably among the most manipulated people on earth will of course pick up the technique themselves, and when mom tell her son that a certain something he do makes mommy ill, that isn’t even subtle. Talking to the Jehovah's Witnesses/Christians imaginary friend is of course also compulsory. For some reason this God never tires of being sucked up to in the most blatantly nauseating manner, being told how wonderful and great he is, in spite of all the genocide and shit “he” has pulled. Then we have the use of the word unconditionally which no Jehovah's Witness alive have the remotest clue as to what is, because they ONLY "love" people who blindly accept whatever is printed in the latest Watchtower.
Then we have another cliché, “you have been deceived” meaning, you could never have figured this out for yourself, as thinking is prohibited for Jehovah's Witnesses.
Unlike the Watchtower Society the apostates USE you, and then throw you aside, something the Watchtower Society would NEVER do. Wonder what Mom and the Congregations is doing to you right now is called? Could it be an example of the Watchtower brand of “unconditional love”?
the pain of, or fear of, that, is causing me so much stress, i am having headaches and pains in my stomach. i feel you have lost the common sense you used to have and are driven by a desire to be somebody, which will never happen in the world you have chosen to live in.
Oh, another Watchtower cliché, you want to (gasp) BE SOMEBODY! Wow! You don’t like to see child abusers get away with their despicable behavior, you refuse to turn a blind eye to the fact that the almighty Watchtower organizations clean façade is more important than children’s lives and well being. What a horrible man you are.
Common sense? A totally unknown phenomenon among Jehovah's Witnesses.
when you build your life around negative stories as horrible as child abuse there's never anything to laugh about any more. there's no joy or feelings of happy times. "happy are those conscious of their spiritual need." if you don't feel a need to be with jehovah there will be no real happiness, it will only be a mirage that will fade when you reach for it and need it most.
Another cliché in the huge Watchtower arsenal, “NEGATIVE”. Everything that is true is negative and in particular truth about the Watchtower Society. That’s “negative” in the extreme. Why can’t you be happy with us and look forward to the day when Jehovah is going to wipe out 6+ billion people, which is due any day now. Now there is something we could laugh about, son. That’s real happiness for you.
i feel someday you will wish you had never taken this course. when that day comes, me, your father, and sister will be there with open arms. i don't always listen to what people say. i just watch their eyes. it's hard for eyes to not show the truth. i didn't see peace and happiness in you, your son or daughters eyes, only in your wife, i feel she see's the mirage and someday she will find those new friends are saying things behind her back that really hurts. this is what i feel. anyway, right now, for my health's sake, i have to not hear about child abuse and your feelings about the organization. it hurts to much and i have to find a way to survive. i will always love you.mom
I, your Mom who have this tremendous “unconditional love” for you will only accept you with open arms if you share my delusions, now if that isn’t unconditional I don’t what is. Don’t you understand that we don’t want to hear about child abuse in la la land. Such filthy and horrible things as reality should be ignored altogether. Just as all the horrible things your wife’s “old” friends in the congregations is saying about her and you, these days.
This is in my opinion what she really said. As usual we who have taken a stand for truth and decency are the ones who will show unconditional love while we put up with such nonsense.
Norm