To Jeff S:
Thank you too for your fair and yet candid addition to this thread. I realize that many who go there are devoted to either doing their part making God's name known or to the org and I understand they are just human.
But I fell into the category of most JWs who for so long looked to the Bethelites as having reached a spiritual plateau and were so dedicated to their faith that they unselfishly gave up the kind of life the rest of us had...homes, family etc.
We, I know, did not reach these conclusions on our own. We looked at Bethel through the "eyes" that they gave us to use. We let them draw this perfect picture for us, tell us it was real, and we believed it along with everything else we were told. Just as you say:
. The fact that they believe that God has put them in these positions of power greatly aggravates the situation of course....The most irritating thing is the propaganda that the organization puts out to make it appear as though they are better than any other religious organization on earth.If you would have said that to me even just 5 years ago I would have had the same reaction that my family would now if I was to tell them these things.....utter disbelief and say it isn't possible in this God-directed org. God would not allow it to go on.In reality, the religious organization run by the JWs is just like every other religious organization it does some good things and does some bad things.
I'm not bitter though now (well maybe sometimes) but I am so glad to know these things which are, for me, a reality check and they do sound so much more like the real truth. My sincere hope is that more and more JWs get their eyes opened to the real facts that "the organization hurts more people than it helps."
Thank you all for making more truth known to us.
Had Enough